Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
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Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
Hi everyone.
I was indoctrinated into a cult as a child. I woke up at the age of 60 and have embraced a more epistemological approach to what I believe and why.
I recognise the dangers I face in falling back into any form of belief or world view without due diligence.
Since waking up in 2017, I have been looking more closely at philosophy and how I can apply it to things I should and shouldn't believe.
It's been a tough path losing friends and family, but I feel cleansed with a clearer view of my place in the universe.
I was indoctrinated into a cult as a child. I woke up at the age of 60 and have embraced a more epistemological approach to what I believe and why.
I recognise the dangers I face in falling back into any form of belief or world view without due diligence.
Since waking up in 2017, I have been looking more closely at philosophy and how I can apply it to things I should and shouldn't believe.
It's been a tough path losing friends and family, but I feel cleansed with a clearer view of my place in the universe.
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Re: Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
The janitor, Mr. Bentham, was in the hall, listening to Ascott the blind singer, from Montana he was, listening and mopping. Swish, swish, splosh, swish, swish, splosh, drip, drip, drip, clank, clink, rattle, rattle, squeak, squeak, squeak. From the corner of his eye he saw the beetleish thing, brown, post-surgery, he smelled iron. He decided to take a closer look. "It's only Euclid ... for now ... Deus magnus est!"
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Hello!BiteYerBumHard wrote: ↑Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:46 am Hi everyone.
I was indoctrinated into a cult as a child. I woke up at the age of 60 and have embraced a more epistemological approach to what I believe and why.
I recognise the dangers I face in falling back into any form of belief or world view without due diligence.
Since waking up in 2017, I have been looking more closely at philosophy and how I can apply it to things I should and shouldn't believe.
It's been a tough path losing friends and family, but I feel cleansed with a clearer view of my place in the universe.
Which cult?
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Lots and lots and lots of cultists here though.
Or, as I call them, objectivists.
Or, as I call them, objectivists.
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Yes, that's true. But BiteYourBum is new here.
He or she might be interested in noting just how many objectivists/cultists that there are in the world around us.
Whether religious:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_r ... traditions
Or secular:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_p ... ideologies
So, he or she might be interested in examining why you insist that it is your own moral and political and spiritual value judgments that "here and now" you believe reflect the most rational and virtuous frame of mind and set of convictions.
Though even you admit that, given new information and knowledge, you are certainly willing to acknowledge that you might change your mind.
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Should BYBH ask me about that, I'd tell him I've never insisted my own moral and political and spiritual value judgments that "here and now" I believe reflect the most rational and virtuous frame of mind and set of convictions. I would also tell him anyone attributing such a thing to me is a liar.iambiguous wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 4:16 pmSo, he or she might be interested in examining why you insist that it is your own moral and political and spiritual value judgments that "here and now" you believe reflect the most rational and virtuous frame of mind and set of convictions.
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No, you'll note that God created the human condition and God installed in all of us the capacity to "follow the dictates of Reason and Nature". And while "here and now" you seem rather adament regarding things like abortion and guns and mentally ill transgender folks, you do acknowledge that BYBH him or herself might post new information and knowledge here that prompts you to completely change your mind about these things.henry quirk wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 4:33 pmShould BYBH ask me about that, I'd tell him I've never insisted my own moral and political and spiritual value judgments that "here and now" I believe reflect the most rational and virtuous frame of mind and set of convictions. I would also tell him anyone attributing such a thing to me is a liar.iambiguous wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 4:16 pmSo, he or she might be interested in examining why you insist that it is your own moral and political and spiritual value judgments that "here and now" you believe reflect the most rational and virtuous frame of mind and set of convictions.
We do seem to agree about that part.
You also admit that since you have been wrong about "important" issues in the past, you may well still be wrong about them today. You just seem unable to cite actual examples of this.
Besides, there's always the squabble regarding how obstinate a moral objectivist must be before he or she becomes a cultist.
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Nope. Never have, never will.iambiguous wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 5:10 pmNo, you'll note that God created the human condition and God installed in all of us the capacity to "follow the dictates of Reason and Nature".
Nope. Never said it.And while "here and now" you seem rather adament regarding things like abortion and guns and mentally ill transgender folks, you do acknowledge that BYBH him or herself might post new information and knowledge here that prompts you to completely change your mind about these things.
Obviously not.We do seem to agree about that part.
Yep.You also admit that since you have been wrong about "important" issues in the past, you may well still be wrong about them today.
Wrong. I've offered multiple examples across multiple threads.You just seem unable to cite actual examples of this.
Yes, nihilists are often prone to joinin' cults.Besides, there's always the squabble regarding how obstinate a moral objectivist must be before he or she becomes a cultist.
Now, unless there's sumthin' new to tussle about: 'nuff said.
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So, you do not believe a God, the God created us? A God that then split the scene? And you do not follow the dictates of reason regarding your own value judgments?henry quirk wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 5:20 pmNope. Never have, never will.iambiguous wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 5:10 pmNo, you'll note that God created the human condition and God installed in all of us the capacity to "follow the dictates of Reason and Nature".
Okay, what did create us then? And what other than reason does motivate you to believe what you do about the issues above?
And while "here and now" you seem rather adamant regarding things like abortion and guns and mentally ill transgender folks, you do acknowledge that BYBH him or herself might post new information and knowledge here that prompts you to completely change your mind about these things.
Note to BYBH:
That's a flagrant lie. On the "a defense of drag show/drag queens" thread, he flat out admitted that new informations and knowledge might prompt him to change his mind about these issues.
iambiguous wrote:...you recognize that given new information and knowledge, you may well be in here concluding just the opposite of what you believe now.
Sounds like a cultist mentality to me. The capacity to lie even to yourself.henry quirk wrote:
Yep.
You also admit that since you have been wrong about "important" issues in the past, you may well still be wrong about them today.
Okay, let's pin down the "for all practical purposes" implications of this. You have a set of convictions "here and now" regarding abortion, guns and mentally ill transgender folks. They are important to you. But since you were wrong about important issues in the past, you may well be wrong about these issues today. Isn't that a reasonable assumption?
You just seem unable to cite actual examples of this.
Okay, perhaps I didn't read those threads. So, note the top three most important issues that you changed your mind about. Or just the number one most important turn around of all.henry quirk wrote: ↑Wed Apr 26, 2023 5:20 pmWrong. I've offered multiple examples across multiple threads.
Besides, there's always the squabble regarding how obstinate a moral objectivist must be before he or she becomes a cultist.
Right the "fractured and fragmented" cult. Yet, how many times have I noted that I do not exclude my own arguments here from my own argument here? After all, over and over and over again in the past I have changed my mind about many truly important things...God and No God.
I am rather adamant that given new experiences, new relationships and access to new information and knowledge [along with the Benjamin Button Syndrome] I may well change my mind again.
And the crucial thing about me is that given just how bleak and depressing my frame of mind is "here and now" regarding both sides of the grave, I'd like nothing more than to have my mind changed about a lot of things.
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Re: Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
Well, that's great then, though I'm sorry you had to lose friends and family.BiteYerBumHard wrote: ↑Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:46 am Hi everyone.
I was indoctrinated into a cult as a child. I woke up at the age of 60 and have embraced a more epistemological approach to what I believe and why.
I recognise the dangers I face in falling back into any form of belief or world view without due diligence.
Since waking up in 2017, I have been looking more closely at philosophy and how I can apply it to things I should and shouldn't believe.
It's been a tough path losing friends and family, but I feel cleansed with a clearer view of my place in the universe.
Was this decision brewing over a long period of time, or did a recent event trigger your leaving?
And if you feel comfortable saying, what kind of cult was this?
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BYBH:
A common tactic of the forum rhetoricians: rephrasing what you post then attributing the rephrasing to you. It seems they reflect back your meaning in the rephrasing, but: they do not.
Keep your guard up.
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Cult member 1: He left
Cult member 2: On 13th April 2023
Cult member 3: 10 PM
Cult member 4: Which day of the week?
Cult mwmber 5: Thursday
Cult member 2: On 13th April 2023
Cult member 3: 10 PM
Cult member 4: Which day of the week?
Cult mwmber 5: Thursday
Re: Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
Is there absolutely ANY 'thing', which 'should be' BELIEVED?BiteYerBumHard wrote: ↑Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:46 am Hi everyone.
I was indoctrinated into a cult as a child. I woke up at the age of 60 and have embraced a more epistemological approach to what I believe and why.
I recognise the dangers I face in falling back into any form of belief or world view without due diligence.
Since waking up in 2017, I have been looking more closely at philosophy and how I can apply it to things I should and shouldn't believe.
If yes, like 'what', EXACTLY?
I hope you did NOT leave one cult, only to enter another one like the one that is existing in the days when this is being written, which is LED by 'the love-of-money' and indoctrinates children into BELIEVING that they need TO WORK and OBTAIN MONEY over just about ANY 'thing' ELSE.BiteYerBumHard wrote: ↑Fri Apr 07, 2023 11:46 am It's been a tough path losing friends and family, but I feel cleansed with a clearer view of my place in the universe.
Re: Having escaped a cult after 50 years I'm here to say hi!
IS this THE cult 'YOU' come 'FROM' age'?'Age wrote: ↑Thu Apr 27, 2023 10:05 amI hope you did NOT leave one cult, only to enter another one like the one that is existing in the days when this is being written, which is LED by 'the love-of-money' and indoctrinates children into BELIEVING that they need TO WORK and OBTAIN MONEY over just about ANY 'thing' ELSE.