I look up words I've not been exposed to or very little exposed to. Some words I work by what I have been exposed to, and other words I don't feel are used well by some people who use it, so I correct them.SpheresOfBalance wrote:Do you know the meaning of any word, or do you always supply your own?
In terms of words like "violence", every person wants to use it exactly the way it fits them, because it's a negative word. If you're a child abuser, you won't to raise the bar for being called "violent" with your actions against your kids, if you're a soldier, you don't want people to use the word "violence" about your acts but instead emphasize necessities and legitimacy in the hope that they forget all the horrors that it all implies, if you're a rapist, you might want to emphasize how you didn't "hit" your victim but only held them firmly against their will, or that your threats against them didn't cause them physical injury.
The more you try to move away from the word "violence" Spheres of Balance, without showing regret for what you did, the more necessity there is in me reminding you that it is an act of "violence", that, from what you write, I take it you intended to hurt (make it feel pain, damage its mind for a time) the child so that its will would be bent towards what you desired of it. Unless you can tell me that it's not what you did, or that you did it but regret it, then I have nothing else to say than that you are fucked up Spheres of Balance, and that it's highly regrettable that you perpetuate violence in children's lives, or anyone's life for that sake (I certainly regret every time in my life I've been violent, and some of the times, whatever small the acts or consequences may seem for me, they still haunt me, and I wish I could undo it).
If you did "play" with your kid, you should say so, then we're likely talking about an accident, but up until that time, talking about animals playing is a preposterous comparison, try playing with your kid and slash it with your nails or bite it painfully or hit it or slam it to the ground and keep it there against its will, try that with a little child, and we'll see if the child enjoys it or whether it will scream in pain and/or fear and/or agony.