Lacewing wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 9:59 pm
So, what about children who are born into brainwashed systems?
Is that what your childhood was?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 9:59 pm
A story and a costume on a stage. Many people never experience anything else ...
Is that what your experience was?
If they aren't your experience, what difference does it make to your choices what other's experience or background was?
Every individual is different, and every individual's circumstances and background is different. It's not what others might or might not have experienced, but what you or I have experienced that we must deal with. I know men and women whose childhood experience provided almost nothing beyond survival, who not only endured deprivation but extreme cruelty, who nevertheless went on to make successful lives for themselves. Everything they were taught was wrong, and everything they experienced was suffering, but they choose to think and learn for themselves and do whatever it took to make themselves successful human beings.
I just finished reading a book by Dorothy Johnson,
Some Went West, in which the true stories of several girls captured by Indian's in the early pioneer days (1800s) in America are recorded. Those girls were tortured, deprived, and taught nothing but superstitious Indian ways and language. Some were scalped and killed by the Indians. Some were eventually rescued, educated themselves and became successful as farmers, teachers, business women and college professors and lived to old age (80s) and had heaps of children, grand-children, and great grand-children. One who endured almost unbelievable hardships said when she was in her 80s, "I cannot imagine a better life," because she had made it herself.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 9:59 pm
RCSaunders wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 7:18 pmEnjoy others, love and help them, because its your choice, otherwise its neither love or help, but a chore performed from a grudging sense of duty and obligation.
I agree.
RCSaunders wrote: ↑Sat Apr 24, 2021 7:18 pmDoes that make sense to you?
Yes. Does what I said make sense to you?
Honestly, no, but I may not understand what your point really is. I really have no idea what being, "born into brainwashed systems," would be (unless you're talking about public school), for example. It seems to me, you are taking the exceptional examples of human experience and generalizing them, as though they were the common human experience.
People are killed and crippled or have their brains scrambled by freak accidents all the time, and others damage themselves with drugs, for example. They are the exceptions, however. I have no idea how someone suffering from such things can or ought to live, but however it is, it certainly does not pertain to human beings in general.