vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 17, 2023 12:03 pm
I don't need to know. I only need to know what a man is, and what a woman is. Of course I don't know what it feels like to be a man, any more than a man knows what it feels like to be a woman. Has the penny dropped yet?
What is a man is self explantory, it's obvious. So is what is a woman. The physical genitals inform that quite obviously without your need to know more.
When you need to know more, you are inadvertently attempting to enter into their mental and emotional realm of that person. And that's your mistake, you simply have zero access to the mental and emotional state of another human being. You can only project your own personal dislikes, unacceptance, prejudices and self-biases at them as you see them from your side of the mirror, and not as they actually are which you can never see. You can NEVER know them, ever.
Walk a mile in their shoes before judging them. We all judge other people, but we can never KNOW them, we never have access to another mind, only our own.
All you can do is mind your own mind, and leave other minds to their own devices, every mind just wants to be free.
This is free annoying advice, I never charge anyone for my wisdom. It's all free, just as we are all free. Everything is free.
If you are going to stick your sticky beak into someone elses head, then don't be surprised to find it's not yours and NEVER will be.