Actually I thought you were trying to be cleverly mysterious... in that you chose to say what you did, when you could have easily said nothing. So I was pressing that to see what else you might say.TSBU wrote:it's obvious tht you think that I'm saying this as a form of escapism.
I had no conclusions about you. I was simply responding to what you said.TSBU wrote: You think that I'm not happy, or I'm "less happy than manypeople"
What's creepy is that you imagine all of this.TSBU wrote:and you feel, seeing how you post it, better with yourself trying to show that to me. Creepy isn't it?
We all challenge or explore what each other says here. That's all we have to go on. All of this imagination about what I feel and what I'm trying to do is a projection from you.
Umm... you're going off.TSBU wrote:What about you, are you happier than me, and you need to show it in a forum to a stranger? That makes you feel good with yourself?
Am I supposed to alter my response based on a person's state of mind? If they are coming here, are they not choosing to engage on an equal playing field?TSBU wrote:Even if it were true, if I posted that because I was depressed, what would you want by posting it? It's obvious that your statement wouldn't help.
Why would any of that matter? We're on a forum... and we respond to what each other says (or in some cases, what they omit from what they say).TSBU wrote:What do you know about me? Do you know if I have cancer? Do you know if I lived in a country in war were I lost all the people I loved? Etc.
What are you talking about? You're making all of this up. It might help if you answer the question you put to me: What do you know about me? How are you coming up with all of this?TSBU wrote:Nah, all that matter is how you feel "now", cause that's obvoiusly what makes you answer this question, you look at the past, and you make estimations about it, you look at your goals... with the eye of this moment. But that's anoyingly stupid, I live now, do you get it?
Ah, here's the expansion to your original response! So, my question: why will you feel any differently at that point, than you do now? Won't you say the same thing then? This is not about your happiness... it's about your focus. It's about how you frame things... which is what we talk about in philosophy, right?TSBU wrote:I don't care about looking at the past,and I generaly have goals to accomplish, that's what makes sense to me. So, has my life been worth it? Who cares? I'll answer when I finish my next goal...
And maybe you'll discover how to stop projecting your feelings/attitudes/fears onto other people too? I really feel sorry if this is what you think is being done to you... but I can assure you that this is not at all my intent. I truly seek expansion for all of us. I do not seek to climb on top of... I seek to connect and inspire. I challenge myself the same way I challenge others. We all have the same capabilities for better or worse.TSBU wrote:or I'll keep doing things, instead of stoping, start looking to the past, and look for "unhappier people" to say them that I'm "more whole than them".
You clearly don't know where I'm coming from. There are MORE WAYS TO BE than any of us can imagine. I'm sorry to have offended or upset you with my approach. I poked you because of what you said... and you roared back at me. It has been an interesting exchange. Thank you.TSBU wrote:You have better things to do, don't you?