Astro Cat wrote: ↑Fri Mar 03, 2023 1:23 pm
I am not opposed to there being a "maleness" and "femaleness," I have just been opposed to the idea that morphology, chromosomes, or gametes are the only arbiters of gender. I think my point is that someone that thinks God is a "He" (or a "She") is contradicting themselves if they then say that gender is the same thing as sex, and that it is decided by things gods don't have like gametes or chromosomes.
Isn't there something parallel when a transperson feels they are in the wrong body? How could their body be wrong for their gender? Yes, they don't try to change their chromosomes and gametes, but they would if they could most likely.
IOW in the feminism I grew up in notions that what one felt like inside and ones proclivities, temperment, attitudes were all considered culturally conceived and mere projections. Gender was socially constructed.
But a male to female transperson is not saying, generally, I feel like I have attributes that are traditionally consider female, but I am male.
The transperson (who is male->female) is saying, this is the wrong body. I do not feel like a man. I feel inside like a woman. And they tend, those who go through hormones and operations, to move as much physically as possible towards being a woman, and then acting like one - however they interpret this but if there has been a strong tendency to move and act (and dress) like the felt gender/sex.
IOW for them sex and gender are aligned, it's just their soul didn't match their birth body, so they want that other body as much as technology and medicine can make it.
And I don't see that stopping with current abilities to change bodies. If an Avatar like process was available and they could download into a body that did have the target chromosomes and gametes, many would choose that option because it's precisely what they are heading for as best they can within the current limitations of change. That is the right body, this is the wrong one.
I have no problem with that given my beliefs within which that interpretation is possible. But I see it as problematic for traditional feminism and even an ontology like physicalism.
Further I think it parallels what you see as a contradiction in religions. We could say that they see the male God as having a kind of energy that the female Gods don't and should be they manifest and/or are felt, it will be different from the opposite sex deity.
Yes, that would be strange with an entirely transdendent deity, but those are actually rather rare. Most deities manifest in different ways and when they do they are not simply neutral glowing balls of light, say.
I can remember a community I was in which was on the radical end of feminism and most of the authority figures in this community were lesbians. There were some strong mixed feelings - and also direct simple negative ones - about men to women trans especially, precisely because it seemed to be a position that gender and sex need to be aligned. Regardless of their personalities, inside feel, the way they carried themselves, their hair and clothes all the women identified as women and in fact this was important to them.
Don't say my being a women means ANYTHING about my proclivities, inner life, attitudes, temperment etc. And so, even the women who many would miss-sex today, iow were miss-identified by others as men, were very clear that they were women. And while they tended to be supportive of in some ways and were not the least freaked out by their appearance, they also thought that a problematic kind of category error was takign place. That it was reactionary.
To put this another way: they might have wanted to say,
come on, you're a man. Sure, great you have many traits that fit with traditional constructed women traits'.
But you're not a woman. This was even said sometimes, though more diplomatically.
No, I AM a woman and I will align my body with my soul and right now they are out of whack.