What do men and women really want from each other?
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What do men and women actually really want from each other?
I am going to answer the actual topic question, instead of rambling on about sex bombs and guys with chiselled bodies.
The thing the sexes want from each other is what the other is not equipped or not willing or not able to give.
That's about it in a nutshell. A lot of footnotes can be written for it, naturally.
I am going to answer the actual topic question, instead of rambling on about sex bombs and guys with chiselled bodies.
The thing the sexes want from each other is what the other is not equipped or not willing or not able to give.
That's about it in a nutshell. A lot of footnotes can be written for it, naturally.
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That explains why woman seeks in man a safe refuge, and man seeks in woman an understanding listener.
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I think women view coming on strong as a sign of insecurity, use it as they will, to nurture maternally or use as a portal for manipulation, depending on the need to fill.
Still puzzling over "valeur."
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Unless he is wearing thousands of $ worth of clothes and his ride could feed a third world village forever, a wise man gives a weather eye to women who come on strong, if you know what I mean.
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Only when men and women stop wanting and needing each other and just allow each other the freedom to be themselves unconditionally will they unite in blissful union as one being.
In partnership when a man or woman can say to thier other half ''I love you'' but ''I do not need you'', not even sexual intimacy is when heaven is experienced between the sexes. In relationship when two people can be together without wanting anything from the other to complete the other is connecting on a higher plane of existence. A rarity indeed.
While we need and want from others we give away our own power. Holding onto our own power is being unafraid to be alone, for we are never alone when we allow others their own power and freedom to be. All that you give away freely comes back to you 100 fold.
As long as people are not physically or mentally abusing the other there can be exquisite harmony when each and the other allow for unconditional freedom to be. Be not afraid of ones own darkness is coming into phase with the natural balance of yin and yang energies of the human condition. To be all accepting of both energies and not favoring one side over the other is the key to conscious successful coupling.
If you give only to receive, you will never be happy, but filled with disappointment. When you give soley to give then you will recieve in kind.
What you give is what you get. True Happiness is being able to love yourself first without fear, want or need for the love of another to fill your void, then all else will be added to you.
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In partnership when a man or woman can say to thier other half ''I love you'' but ''I do not need you'', not even sexual intimacy is when heaven is experienced between the sexes. In relationship when two people can be together without wanting anything from the other to complete the other is connecting on a higher plane of existence. A rarity indeed.
While we need and want from others we give away our own power. Holding onto our own power is being unafraid to be alone, for we are never alone when we allow others their own power and freedom to be. All that you give away freely comes back to you 100 fold.
As long as people are not physically or mentally abusing the other there can be exquisite harmony when each and the other allow for unconditional freedom to be. Be not afraid of ones own darkness is coming into phase with the natural balance of yin and yang energies of the human condition. To be all accepting of both energies and not favoring one side over the other is the key to conscious successful coupling.
If you give only to receive, you will never be happy, but filled with disappointment. When you give soley to give then you will recieve in kind.
What you give is what you get. True Happiness is being able to love yourself first without fear, want or need for the love of another to fill your void, then all else will be added to you.
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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?
Women want more than sex, as the video alludes.SpheresOfBalance wrote: ↑Wed Oct 16, 2019 5:31 pmSex is exactly what they want from each other, but with all of today’s screwy conceptualizations it can get very complicated.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk5iqoYVUQc
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those are immature mind-games. but ya they are played.
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insecure men also play the alpha man when when they are betas.
play the part in hopes of getting laid.
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Wise words, and i agree.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Wed Oct 16, 2019 10:16 am Only when men and women stop wanting and needing each other and just allow each other the freedom to be themselves unconditionally will they unite in blissful union as one being.
In partnership when a man or woman can say to thier other half ''I love you'' but ''I do not need you'', not even sexual intimacy is when heaven is experienced between the sexes. In relationship when two people can be together without wanting anything from the other to complete the other is connecting on a higher plane of existence. A rarity indeed.
While we need and want from others we give away our own power. Holding onto our own power is being unafraid to be alone, for we are never alone when we allow others their own power and freedom to be. All that you give away freely comes back to you 100 fold.
As long as people are not physically or mentally abusing the other there can be exquisite harmony when each and the other allow for unconditional freedom to be. Be not afraid of ones own darkness is coming into phase with the natural balance of yin and yang energies of the human condition. To be all accepting of both energies and not favoring one side over the other is the key to conscious successful coupling.
If you give only to receive, you will never be happy, but filled with disappointment. When you give soley to give then you will recieve in kind.
What you give is what you get. True Happiness is being able to love yourself first without fear, want or need for the love of another to fill your void, then all else will be added to you.
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your view above is per folks with self actualization.
sadly too many are codependant, and need another for self esteem.
and thus the 1/2 devorce(sp) rate.
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If the psychosocial demands of people were immutable, then the government would not waste so much time encouraging the demand to be instructed. I.e. modern schooling.-1- wrote: ↑Thu Oct 10, 2019 9:23 pm What do men and women actually really want from each other?
I am going to answer the actual topic question, instead of rambling on about sex bombs and guys with chiselled bodies.
The thing the sexes want from each other is what the other is not equipped or not willing or not able to give.
That's about it in a nutshell. A lot of footnotes can be written for it, naturally.
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This is true, but do people learn anything before a post-secondary education? In my opinion they learn the letters of the alphabet, and basic arithmetic skills. Beyond that, nothing remains of public education in the minds and in the knowledge-base of people.Systematic wrote: ↑Thu Jan 02, 2020 6:31 am
If the psychosocial demands of people were immutable, then the government would not waste so much time encouraging the demand to be instructed. I.e. modern schooling.
Well, none remained in mine. That's for sure.