A woman's reputation
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A woman's reputation
In a relationship, why would a woman have more to fear about her reputation than a man about his (is it because women are more sensitive?)
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Re: A woman's reputation
There's some confusion in your question, Phil. Are you asking why women feel more fear than men, or why women are more vulnerable than men?
Re: A woman's reputation
No it's because double standards exist.
Women have all the same emotions men do. It's not like one of the sexes are emotionally retarded. It's just social convention has defined roles for each sex, and it is hard to break them.
Women have all the same emotions men do. It's not like one of the sexes are emotionally retarded. It's just social convention has defined roles for each sex, and it is hard to break them.
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Re: A woman's reputation
Hi Blag,Blaggard wrote:No it's because double standards exist.
Women have all the same emotions men do. It's not like one of the sexes are emotionally retarded. It's just social convention has defined roles for each sex, and it is hard to break them.
Any thoughts as to how this particular double standard came to be? I would try to research it on the internet, but I wouldn't know where to start.
PhilX
Re: A woman's reputation
You could start with the earliest societies on Earth, there has been a double standard throughout history, females have always had different roles in society, read a little history. For example I believe that in England a King could marry and his wife would be the Queen, but if a Queen ascends the throne and marries her husband is not the King. So HE can promote a woman to be Queen but SHE cannot promote a man to be King.Philosophy Explorer wrote:Hi Blag,Blaggard wrote:No it's because double standards exist.
Women have all the same emotions men do. It's not like one of the sexes are emotionally retarded. It's just social convention has defined roles for each sex, and it is hard to break them.
Any thoughts as to how this particular double standard came to be? I would try to research it on the internet, but I wouldn't know where to start.
PhilX
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Re: A woman's reputation
Probably because women are on the receiving end of misogyny from both men and women. Society hates women.
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Yeah look up anthropological roles in history men and women, and the reasons such things exits. Also look up animal sex roles, particularly in apes, and also in Wolves.Philosophy Explorer wrote:Hi Blag,Blaggard wrote:No it's because double standards exist.
Women have all the same emotions men do. It's not like one of the sexes are emotionally retarded. It's just social convention has defined roles for each sex, and it is hard to break them.
Any thoughts as to how this particular double standard came to be? I would try to research it on the internet, but I wouldn't know where to start.
PhilX
Society doesn't hate anything per se. Evolution on the other hand is blind hatred.vegetariantaxidermy wrote:Probably because women are on the receiving end of misogyny from both men and women. Society hates women.
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Powerful women can enjoy different standards though.
The zarine Catherine the Great or Cleopatra or even the English Queen Elisabeth I had many lovers and their reputation did not suffer.
Men worry about raising children who are not theirs and possibly that is why they prefer women who are faithful.
A man can have bad reputation too.
If he is a gambler, an alcoholic, a cheater, a syphilitic etc.
There are aspects of a man that women avoid. What would they be exactly ?
In conservative terms: women should be pretty and faithful, men should be rich and strong and intelligent and provide security.
Would you agree ?
The zarine Catherine the Great or Cleopatra or even the English Queen Elisabeth I had many lovers and their reputation did not suffer.
Men worry about raising children who are not theirs and possibly that is why they prefer women who are faithful.
A man can have bad reputation too.
If he is a gambler, an alcoholic, a cheater, a syphilitic etc.
There are aspects of a man that women avoid. What would they be exactly ?
In conservative terms: women should be pretty and faithful, men should be rich and strong and intelligent and provide security.
Would you agree ?
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Re: A woman's reputation
Then why are there so many ugly married people, with children?duszek wrote:Powerful women can enjoy different standards though.
The zarine Catherine the Great or Cleopatra or even the English Queen Elisabeth I had many lovers and their reputation did not suffer.
Men worry about raising children who are not theirs and possibly that is why they prefer women who are faithful.
A man can have bad reputation too.
If he is a gambler, an alcoholic, a cheater, a syphilitic etc.
There are aspects of a man that women avoid. What would they be exactly ?
In conservative terms: women should be pretty and faithful, men should be rich and strong and intelligent and provide security.
Would you agree ?
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Perhaps because they compromise.
Perhaps because they develop there own standards, that are different.
Perhaps because they develop there own standards, that are different.
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Re: A woman's reputation
Perhaps because who we fall in love with usually has little to do with the stereotypical supposedly 'desirable' mates. Perhaps this is one of the reasons there are so damn many of us.duszek wrote:Perhaps because they compromise.
Perhaps because they develop there own standards, that are different.
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mostly because the english speaking peoples are a bunch of lard asses and this gets worse with agevegetariantaxidermy wrote: Then why are there so many ugly married people, with children?
so people who look ok at 18 become ugly fatsos by 30
Re: A woman's reputation
Maybe because they are more sensitive, as you said.Philosophy Explorer wrote:In a relationship, why would a woman have more to fear about her reputation than a man about his (is it because women are more sensitive?)
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Re: A woman's reputation
Not true with me as several women like to rub my pot belly.Kayla wrote:mostly because the english speaking peoples are a bunch of lard asses and this gets worse with agevegetariantaxidermy wrote: Then why are there so many ugly married people, with children?
so people who look ok at 18 become ugly fatsos by 30
PhilX
Re: A woman's reputation
Philosophy Explorer wrote:Not true with me as several women like to rub my pot belly.Kayla wrote:mostly because the english speaking peoples are a bunch of lard asses and this gets worse with agevegetariantaxidermy wrote: Then why are there so many ugly married people, with children?
so people who look ok at 18 become ugly fatsos by 30
PhilX
Perhaps they just can't find what they really want to rub.
Or perhaps they've mistaken you for a lamp.