Scott Mayers wrote: ↑Sat Nov 02, 2019 11:43 pmIt's sad for me to note this because I was one of those 'equal' feminists growning up. I've changed given today's change in HOW feminists are advocating with strictness.Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Nov 02, 2019 11:08 pmThis is interesting to me.Scott Mayers wrote: ↑Sat Nov 02, 2019 10:53 pm
I assure you that as a 'skeptic' who participates in many groups, my own arguments are extremely unwelcomed because the vast majority of the women in these groups are strong feminists who DO believe that you should 'ghost' those who disagree.
Since many, maybe even most people use pseudonyms, are you thinking that there is a distinctively "feminine" style of argumentation? That would argue in favour of some kind of essentialism, it would seem, if true.
The qualities that is treated as 'feminine' or 'effeminate' are only descriptive of the averages in cultrual beliefs about what men and women are by default of traditional stereotypes. Thus, 'crying', would be an effeminate behavior because men, ...even by the standards of many feminists, should NOT do this. I believe these qualities are not about actual sex differences by individual basis but about literal factors as individuals regardless of sex. So anyone can use 'silence' as a weapon. But the quality of stereotypes that FAVOR women, like ignoring (ghosting), are accepted by these feminists as appropriate behavior that should not be dropped,....just as they believe women who prefer to dress how they like regardless of the social message they are conveying upon those stereotypes are also dismissed.
Being silent IS 'ghosting'. But the term ghosting is also about enticing ALL others to agree to the ignoring and thus isolating those individuals that compete against their goals. They are taking their present Machivelian approach as a necessary evil as they believe they have no other choice to BE that strict in order to overthrow those in power they believe are keeping the negative stereotypes fixed. They are revolting in Marxian style. He was one who believed that at some moments in history, regardless of which ideal govenment takes power, they devolve to become abusive and there comes a point in which no change is actually possible without complete and utter advocacy without apology.....a "revolution" by force to overthrow the old system and start from scratch. This is what the feminists are doing today.So, one characteristic you would identify with the "female" style of argumentation would be "being silent," and another would be "ghosting." Have I got you correct? What else would you suggest?Given that the very general stereotype of the female's major 'weapon' is itself to be SILENT, their choice NOT to come here is itself a stereotypical female/feminine tactic that has been working in their favor.
The men who agree, are usually those who both represent the stereotypical benefactors of the patriarchy women were against but support feminism because it actually redirects the associated guilt off them by distributing the loss upon the whole class, males, since they wouldn't actually have to pay the penalties themselves. It is thus in their interest to also go along with the 'ghosting' since it isolates them from those males who are now burdened to sacrifice (.....or rather, scapegoated).
Dear Scott and IC,
No, Scott... Planning Marxist- style revolutions to topple the "evil", White, male, power structure that dominates Western society is NOT what most women in the West who call themselves "feminists are doing.The Ideological feminists -formal theorists in the Western academy and the radical, gynocenrtric branches of the feminist movement do, however still advocate the type of "smash-the-patriarchy" revolutionary approach that you refer to, though they are thankfully a small minority and are not at all representative of mainstream feminist thinking in the US (NB: for the sake of convenience , I will use feminism in the US to represent Western feminism generally (i.e. the feminist movements in the UK; Australia, Canada, Western Europe, etc.) Also, as an adult, I only have personal experience of residing in the UK, Australia and US for any substantial lengths of time, so , I have no experience of feminism in any non-Western societies like Africa, Brazil, Japan, India , Russia or Vietnam, etc.
I think the feminist movement in the US has had a profound impact on American society, and I would like to break it down into two movements, the first being Equity (or liberal) feminism and the second being the new wave of feminism ("Radical (Gender) Feminism which emerged in the early 1960's and has dominated feminist ideology and academic theory over the past six decades to date). The first feminist movement dates back , strictly speaking, to Mary Wollstonecraft (Mary Shelley's mother) the wife of the English political philosopher (and anarchist) William Godwin in England in the late 18th century, and, more dramatically, to the feisty Suffragettes of late Victorian Britain and America. The focus of Equity feminism was on the goal of securing social, political and legal equality: equal pay for the same work; the right to vote; equal access to the same opportunities that were open to men, and so on. The Equity feminists were successful in their struggle and eventually secured the equal civil rights (political, social, economic, legal) that they demanded. One the whole, most reasonable people in the West today have no serious criticisms of the Equity feminist movement; it delivered outcomes that were good for women and also good for men. ( Though I must say, on a purely personal note, I still believe that giving women the right to vote was a catastrophic mistake, and there is evidence of this throughout all of American society today, though I will not say any more on the matter; if I did, I would doubtless be condemned as a Nazi, a fascist, a crazy White, male reactionary, etc. Suffice to say that when some of the great thinkers of the past: Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Kant, Aristotle and Aquinas, amongst others, warned that allowing women to vote was an unthinkable proposition, which would, if it came to pass, "end in tears" - they were dead right!)
Now, with regard to the Second Wave of the feminist movement in the West, this was a "multi-flavoured" mixture of: "Radical Feminism"; "Marxist and Socialist Feminism"; Gender Feminism; Postmodern feminism; Eco-feminism; Post-structural feminism, Cultural feminism; Black feminism and other less prominent theories. Some Western feminist academics distinguish a Third and Fourth wave of the feminist movement, for example, categorising Postmodern and Post-Structuralist feminist theory as part of the Third wave, for reasons I will shortly explain, all of the so-called Third and Fourth waves of ideological feminism and formal feminist theory are basically grounded on the same fundamental political principles as the Second Wave movement. The foundational tenets of feminist ideology and theory in the Western academy are pretty much the same in 2019 as they were in 1963 (when Betty Friedan started the second wave ball rolling with her book, "The Feminine Mystique") and as they were throughout all the intervening decades: the 1970's; 1980's; 1990's; 2000 and 2010's.
I equate Second Wave feminism (1963 - 2019) with what was called "Radical (Gender) Feminism". (On a technical note, the American philosopher and feminist author, Ti-Grace Atkinson published a piece called "Radical Feminism" in 1969 that is often cited as the seminal work in the field). Radical (Gender) feminism has provided the bulwark for almost all ideological theoretical/academic thought in feminism beginning around the later half of the 1960's, and it is actually very easy to understand the basic principles of "Radical Feminism" because there are only two (2). The first boils down to six words: DESTROY THE WHITE, MALE, WESTERN PATRIARCHY. Destroy it now, use whatever means, (however violent, antisocial, unnatural, etc;) it takes, and remember nothing but total annihilation will be satisfactory.The second principle is that ALL psychological differences between males and females are socially/culturally constructed; that is NOT due to any innate biological differences between the sexes. That's all you need to know to have a thorough grasp the thinking behind the past 60 years of ideological/theoretical/academy feminism in the West. Believe it or not this is STILL the OFFICIAL IDEOLOGICAL/THEORETICAL POSITION of FEMINISM in 2019. Yes Sir, this is precisely the kind of crazy bullshit, feminist theorists in the academy are being very well- paid by you the average US tax-payer to churn out and teach to 19-year-old girls in Women's Studies courses on college.
RADICAL FEMINISM IN THE WEST IS INTRINSICALLY MARXIST
So , I divided Western feminism into two movements: (1) Equity (or Liberal) feminism which sought (successfully) to achieve equal civil rights for women, and worked within the structure of mainstream Western society in England and the United States; and, (2) "Radical Feminism" which was a revolutionary, Marxist - style, gynocentric, anti-Western, anti-Patriarchal assault on mainstream society in the West.
""Radical Feminism" grew out of the anti-war (Vietnam) and anti-government mood that spread through US college campus after 1965 (when LBJ escalated America's involvement in fighting the North Vietnamese communist insurgency). Students read communists like Marx and J.P. Sartre, neo-Marxist Critical theorist like Herbert Marcuse, the Marxist-based, so-called postmodern philosophy of Michel Foucault and Jacques Derrida and revolutionary, social philosophers like Franz Fanon. It was in this hotbed of Marxist sympathies that "Radical (Gender) Feminism" was birthed, and its mission was - as Derrida taught - to destroy the "phallogocentric" Western patriarchy. Derrida and Foucault thought that everything boiled down to RAW POWER. The idea that civilized, human beings should sit down around a table and try to rationally and logically resolve their differences of opinion or disputes was rejected by Derrida. In his view, the side with the most power is the side that wins by crushing the less powerful opposing side - and that was all that mattered -, reason and rational discourse were redundant.
MAINSTREAM FEMINISM IN 2019
Although, as I say, "Radical (Gender) Feminism" still characterises the majority of Western feminist theory in academia and is the prevailing ideology, most women who identify as (nominal) "feminists" in America have washed their hands of it. So it seems to me that the Second Wave of the feminist movement has failed. For 60 years it has sought to destroy the White , male Western ("phallogocentric" patriarchy using every tactical and strategic combination and permutation it could manage to come up with; and their is no doubt "Radical Feminism" inflicted serious damage on the very fabric of Western society. It succeed in: undermining the institution of Christian marriage and precipitated a dramatic fall in the marriage rate among young, White Americans; dramatically increasing divorce rates, which have been sent soaring since the first half of the 1970s when Radical Feminists succeeded in spreading so-called "No Fault" divorce legislation throughout all 50 American States; generating high rates of illegitimacy; promoting a rapid growth in the number of single parent (mostly single mother)American families; effecting a sharp escalation in juvenile delinquency, educational failure, substance abuse and diagnosed psychiatric disorders among children from broken homes, in particular homes without fathers; inflating an ever ballooning Welfare State to pay for the social pathologies it created: widespread poverty among single mothers and the costs of government subsidised medical treatment and a host of other supportive social services for their psychologically damaged children, 300 million abortions since 1973 (enough to put a smile on any Radical (Gender) Feminists face !) a disproportionately high rate of adult male suicide and opioid abuse/addiction in the US, much of which I would attribute the role "Radical (Gender) Feminism has played in the destabilisation/destruction of the traditional, nuclear family, a legal system heavily stacked in favour of women in judgements of alimony payment/child support payments and the constant shrill chorus of venomous abuse in the media, at work and the public domain generally which denounces white, American men as "rapists", " sexual abusers" (#ME TOO"), "malevolent misogynists", and brands masculinity as innately "toxic.", etc
Radical Feminism in the US today is now thank God (!) de-fanged; and feminism, general speaking, has become a vapid and banal affair. It is become merely a toothless, paper tiger. Why ? Because most sensible women were not prepared to accept the thesis of "Radical (Gender) Feminism, and so the movement lost its political moorings. In its quest for universality, feminism has now just become a catch-all term for self-empowerment and for individual success.
Equally most of the erstwhile, hard-core, Radical (Gender) feminists in the US "sold-out", they turned their backs on their values in order to gain assimilation - in other words they were co-opted into the mainstream White, male patriarchal establishment (Just like the young Mick Jagger and the "Rolling Stones", the "Jefferson Airplane" and "Up Against the Wall Motherfuckers"). They ditched their political/moral principles for the sake of access to personal power.
So what you have in the West in 2019 are lots of women in positions of power behaving just like men do. But this is NOT a defeat of the patriarchy...it is just the patriarchy with women in it.
THE ASTONISHING MADNESS OF TODAY'S RADICAL FEMINIST IDEOLOGUES AND ACADEMIC THEORISTS
I must confess that I have a particular loathing for modern Radical (Gender) Feminist theoreticians in the academy. Firstly, it is near impossible to read their work because it is saturated with dense technical jargon, in exactly the way that the writing of the neo- Marxist, Postmodern philosophers like Derrida and Foucault is. I think that the best philosophical arguments have always been those are those that are be expressed in clear, simple English. Modern feminists feel they must try to disguise the lack of intellectual muscle in their arguments by "embellishing" them with 1000s of £5 adjectives and 20+ letter pieces of double Dutch. Secondly, they are paid very well for work that no one reads because almost everyone knows what they write is utter rubbish. If I may put my middle-class moralistic cap on, It infuriates me that for most of my working like I laboured long and hard in humble professions : chemistry teacher and employee retail pharmacist, I did no harm, I provided useful services for my community and I got slugged by the government in terms of the income tax I had to pay. In the case of today's feminist academics, however, they are very well paid to write Marxist propaganda that no one reads, and to teach 19 -year - old girls that: males and the Western patriarchy their own culture/civilization is rotten to the core and must be destroyed, that abortion is to be encouraged, that marriage is an oppressive misogynist institution, that all males are inherently rapists; that there is no such thing as objective morality or truth, that Enlightenment reason is an instrument of oppression wielded by males in the West to subjugate their women; that gender is purely a social/cultural construct that has no biogenetic basis whatsoever and so on. How is it, these women - and there are lots of them in Universities across America are able to secure good salaries for writing and teaching this poisonous, nihilistic, irrational, nonsensical and scientifically FALSE garbage ? I simply don't geddit ?
Now that I got that off my chest, I will explain why the Radical Feminist ideologues and academics in the West today are all barking mad. From the mid-1960's to the present day ALL feminist politics has been absolutely anti-capitalist. Patriarchy is tightly wound up with capitalism in the modern West, thus for the Radical (Gender) Feminists the two must fall together. According to a number of today's Radical (Gender) philosophers modern feminism lost its radical political consciousness and de-fanged itself because the idea emerged that if feminists placed a lot more women in positions of power, somehow that would destroy the patriarchy, not understanding that the patriarchy has nothing to do with men (?!) They argue that if women in power behave like men (e.g. Margaret Thatcher), that is not a defeat for the patriarchy, that's just the patriarchy with some women in it.
The root of the issue, they claim, is all to do with how we define "patriarchy." Their claim is that patriarchy is in essence a society structured by HIERARCHY. So unless that is reformed, unless society is reformed so there are no hierarchies of competence/dominance/power the feminist project will fail - the patriarchy will not be defeated. So all of this is simply the argument against capitalism and the values that undergird it. Ever since the dawn of the Second Wave of feminism, radical (gender) feminists have been singing the same song, which is that the white, male patriarchy is tightly intertwined with capitalism so there isn't a way of defeating one without defeating the other, hence the abundance of socialist, Marxist, neo-Marxist Critical theory, post-structuralist and deconstructionist (i.e. Marxist-based postmodern philosophy) that has consistently underpinned and permeated all of the different sub-stands of "Radical (Gender) Feminism" throughout the last 60 years of feminist theory. A revolution is required, these clowns are now arguing, not merely to eliminate the wicked, White , male, patriarchy but to level ALL social/cultural human hierarchies. I put it to you that this is utter insanity. But again this is nothing new...Germain Greer- CRAZY, Shulasmith Firestone - CRAZY, Kate Millett - Crazy, bell hooks - CRAZY, the "Redstockings" - CRAZY, Ti-Grace Atkinson - CRAZY, Gloria Steinem - CRAZY, Andrea Dworkin - VERY CRAZY, Naomi Wolfe - CRAZY, Hillary Clinton - CRAZY, Mary Daly - CRAZY, Janice Raymond - CrAZY, Jesse Helms - CRAZY and the list goes on.
It is insanity because human social hierarchies are completely unavoidable, they are, evolutionarily speaking, incredibly ancient, and this is an incontrovertible, hard scientific "fact-in-the-bag", - no mainstream scientist disputes it !. But not only is the production of hierarchies the result of ancient "hard-wiring", they are inevitable given the fact that that people of unequal abilities strive for the same goals. Social hierarchies are necessary for people to live meaningful lives. Because it is true that the collective pursuit of any valued goal produces a hierarchy (as some will be better and some worse at the pursuit no matter what it is) and because it it is the pursuit of goals that in large part lends life its sustaining meaning. We experience almost all the emotions that make life deep and engaging as a consequence of moving successfully towards something deeply desired and valued. The price we must pay for that involvement is the inevitable creation of hierarchies of success, with the inevitable consequence of differences in outcome. From this, it follows that a sociopolitical project designed to to destroy all human social hierarchies in order to create absolute equality would require the sacrifice of value itself - and then, of course, there would be nothing worth living for.
The insane and utterly incomprehensible claim of Radical, Marxist/Deconstructionist (Gender) feminists, that all gender differences are wholly socially constructed, and constituted a cloaked means of keeping women oppressed is pure madness ! The differences between the sexes are as deeply rooted in nature as anything could possibly be. It is true that the primary hierarchical structure of society is masculine, HOWEVER, there is not a shred of hard evidence that Western society is pathologically patriarchal, or that the prime lesson of history is that man, rather than nature, were the primary source of oppression of women (rather than, as in most cases, their supporters and partners and protectors). Nor is there a shred of hard evidence that all hierarchies - including the hierarchical advantage of increased power that men have over women in most societies - are BASED on power and aimed at exclusion. Do male tigers and chimps oppress female tigers and chimps ? Should their hierarchies be upended ?
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