What do men and women actually really want from each other?

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What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Dontaskme » Wed Sep 04, 2019 12:59 pm

:arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :?: :?: :?: :arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :idea: :idea: :idea:

I'm fucked if I know.

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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Dachshund » Wed Sep 04, 2019 2:42 pm

Dontaskme wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 12:59 pm
:arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :?: :?: :?: :arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :idea: :idea: :idea:

I'm fucked if I know.
They're supposed to make babies, that's their whole fucking raison d'etre.


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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by vegetariantaxidermy » Wed Sep 04, 2019 2:46 pm

Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 2:42 pm
Dontaskme wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 12:59 pm
:arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :?: :?: :?: :arrow: :arrow: :arrow: :idea: :idea: :idea:

I'm fucked if I know.
They're supposed to make babies, that's their whole fucking raison d'etre.


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That's not what she asked.

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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Lacewing » Wed Sep 04, 2019 5:11 pm

I think it depends on the man and the woman, of course.

From a man, I want the increased ability (with his unique energy) to co-create, experience, and share a loving, aware, and fun path on planet Earth.

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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Dachshund » Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:54 pm

Lacewing wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 5:11 pm
I think it depends on the man and the woman, of course.

From a man, I want the increased ability (with his unique energy) to co-create, experience, and share a loving, aware, and fun path on planet Earth.

I'll give you a hint, Aristotle.

Ask yourself why do, I and almost every other woman on planet Earth, have boobs ?


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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Lacewing » Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:03 pm

Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:54 pm
Ask yourself why do, I and almost every other woman on planet Earth, have boobs ?
Well, it appears they serve as an early detection system for identifying shallow and mindless men. They work very well for that.

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Post by Dachshund » Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:08 pm

Lacewing wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:03 pm
Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:54 pm
Ask yourself why do, I and almost every other woman on planet Earth, have boobs ?
Well, it appears they serve as an early detection system for identifying shallow and mindless men. They work very well for that.

Nothing to do with having babies then ?


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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Lacewing » Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:21 pm

Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:08 pm
Nothing to do with having babies then ?
Well of course that's their primary purpose. I've never had children, so they've served a different function for me, as I said.

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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Dachshund » Wed Sep 04, 2019 11:58 pm

Lacewing wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:21 pm
Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 9:08 pm
Nothing to do with having babies then ?
Well of course that's their primary purpose. I've never had children, so they've served a different function for me, as I said.
Dear Lacey,


Yes that's right, their primary purpose is to provide breast milk to nourish babies; and that includes the new born offspring of all mammals like dogs and cows for example. But the story doesn't end there...



Men have been obsessed with women's breasts for literally millennia, they instinctively like to take a quick, furtive look at a nice pair of boobs. Almost all healthy young males do this and the overwhelming majority of them are are not creepy, "shallow, mindless" perverts you would have them (BTW, most NORMAL women like it when they catch a male taking a quick, discrete gander at their tits, Lacewing !), far from it ! Because the innate desire to take a quick glance at at some "nicely-turned" bosoms is actually an unconscious, evolutionary drive. A drive that helps male and female human beings forge loving, nurturing bonds.



If you are interested in learning about the neuroscience of this process, I would be happy to teach you ( BTW, it's not too difficult to grasp the technical concepts involved even if you have no background in neurobiology/chemistry).


Basically, the upshot is...



BOOBS------------- males are fascinated with them and like to look at them (this is an unconscious evolutionary drive).......... and although the males have no idea about this at all, female boobs play a critical role in forming loving, caring, nurturative relationship between a males and females, due to the action of a hormone called oxytocin and a neurotransmitter called dopamine which are released in the female when males play with (i.e. squeeze, fondle, rub, suck) their girlfriends' breasts/nipples (note how I said "loving", caring", "nurturative" bond; this is not "Big Titty" pornography, I'm talking about, Lacey) ------------sexual intercourse takes place---------------the female becomes pregnant---------------in 9 months a new baby is born--------------the baby instinctively latches on to the female's lactating breasts and sucks out the milk it need to nourish itself. YAAAAAY !!




So , Lacey girl, if you've decided that the primary raison d'etre for your boobs is to "serve as any early identification system" that detects and classifies any males who dare glance at your rack as: "seedy, grubby, narrow-minded, perverts." then THAT'S the precisely reason that you have never had any children. I am actually feeling grief for you right now, even though I don't know you. I blame the political extremists in the Second - Generation, Marxist, Gender Feminist movement in the US for screwing with your head. If I could get away with it, I'd put a bullet through Germain Greer's head, her, and bitches like Gloria Steinem - the world would be a better place. But I have responsibilities and I couldn't afford to be locked up for 25 years (or whatever) in prison.





Finally, as to why women have breasts and female genitalia, and, as to why men have male genitalia. It's all for the purpose of procreation - making babies. Whose idea was that, you ask ? The answer is God, He planned it all. Who's God, you say ? Well he's a person who is: immanent; transcendent; supernatural; extremely powerful; who loves human beings and, amongst other things, likes to "drive the bus." What I mean by that is what He says - in terms of moral commandments - i.e; in terms of what is the right way to behave, and what is NOT the right way to behave, you had better take very seriously. Don't do what He say are bad or wrong things to do. If your attitude to this is: "Fuck you, God" you will find that you end up in more shit than you thought you could ever possibly imagine.




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PS: Joke for you about Tantric Sex !



Lacewing, did I tell you that my favourite Tantric Sex position is called "The Plumber", you stay in all day and nobody comes; but I still use a condom as the damp plays hell with my arthritis. :D
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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by vegetariantaxidermy » Thu Sep 05, 2019 1:00 am

Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:54 pm


Ask yourself why do I and almost every other woman on planet Earth, have boobs ?


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So: who puts the cart in front of the horse?

Post by henry quirk » Thu Sep 05, 2019 1:27 am

"What do men and women actually really want from each other?"

A man wants sex, ideally with someone he likes, mebbe even loves.

A woman wants love, ideally with someone she can have sex with.

This ain't rocket science, folks.

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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Dachshund » Thu Sep 05, 2019 3:12 am

vegetariantaxidermy wrote:
Thu Sep 05, 2019 1:00 am
Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 8:54 pm


Ask yourself why do I and almost every other woman on planet Earth, have boobs ?


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Odd. I assumed you were a male for some reason.

Well Veggie, sometimes, on a Saturday night, I like to - you know - "take a little walk on the wild side." Just "frock up", put a bit of lippy on - some mascara - shave my armpits and legs, it's no big deal. I Borrow one of my sisters' bras; stuff it with some tissues, wriggle into nice pair of high heels and a tartan micro-skirt - splash on a little Chanel No. 5, then catch a bus to to Clubland to see what happens. Will I get lucky?? Who knows?? !! :P


Aroha xxx


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Re: What do men and women actually really want from each other?

Post by Lacewing » Thu Sep 05, 2019 3:55 am

Dachshund wrote:
Wed Sep 04, 2019 11:58 pm
So, you took what I said and turned it into some extreme position which is untrue, so that you could then give me a lecture and lesson on sex and its benefits. What the hell is wrong with you?

I did not say it's not alright or expected for a man to glance. I'm talking about the mindless gaze when their brain stops working -- that moment when a woman stops being a human being, and starts being an object to be drooled on. Who wants that, seriously? Would you think much of anyone who did that to you?

And how fucked up for you to change my words around to suggest that I expressed my initial comment as the "primary reason", which is also not true, and then you went on to suggest that this was the reason I've not had children. Not having children was not due to any ideas about men! I had 3 miscarriages when I was married, and evidently it just wasn't my path to have children. I'm completely at peace with that.

My ability to recognize mindless male behaviors comes from my experience with all kinds of men in every facet of life. They are not mysteries -- they are obvious! I typically have a sense of humor about it, but I also recognize when they're being really/too stupid. More than 50% of my best friends have been men -- they were not shallow, and they knew how to be in control of themselves. So I know what that's like. I think that intelligent people know how to look at other people in a more multi-dimensional way.

As for YOU... your apparent need to distort things so that you can spew your crap is very dishonest and dishonorable.

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vegetariantaxidermy wrote:
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