I wasn't sure about him at first because one cannot tell who people really are by just going on what they write on a forum. But it wasn't until I was feeling really pissed off one day on the forum that I realised what a decent character Harbal actually was. I found that out one day when completely out of the blue quite unexpectedly I got a PM from him asking me if I was alright? ..that PM spoke volumes about the sort of person he really is. So he's on my christmas card list now LOL (just kidding I fucking hate christmas.
Lacy, thanks for all your responses. The parlance in which we both define the human condition is similar. I agree with mostly everything you have said in reply to me. However!! I peronally don't think life is worth the addmission fee for a human, but that's just my opinion. A new topic on that subject could be started actually. I wonder if the subject topic ( Is being born worth it - or is it better to have never been born? ) would be worth talking about?