You do not distinguish between our fallen emotional nature and the quality of feelings we have the potential for which is a goal of Christianity. Metropoltan Anthony of the Russian Church explains it to Jacob Needleman in his book: Lost Christianity. "We have to get rid of emotions....in order to reach.....feeling" If a person doesn't sense the difference, they cannot understand the value of Christianity. Love of God is a potential for us and not something we have. The value of a non secular Christian church is to help one to become able.Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sun Mar 29, 2020 2:46 pm"Brotherly love," you mean.
But Christianity is about acquiring emotional quality.
Not at all.
For Christians, if love has an "emotion," then the "emotion" part is a byproduct, a mere "icing on the cake"...if it comes, great...if not, it's of no consequence to the question of one's duty to "agape." That's one of the distinctives of agape...it can be commanded.
As Kierkegaard said, we must remember that "Love your neighbour as yourself" is a command. It's not "feel love for your neighbour;" as nice as that might be; it's "do that which is actively in his highest interest," whether you feel it or not.
Other kinds of love, which require feelings, fall deceptively short of agape. It's too easy for them to come to be about the feelings instead of the command...or worse, to become the feeling of loving the feeling you have in the presence of another -- in other words, no more than a kind of hidden self-love, an enjoyment of being "in love" or "a good friend" with someone else, of being a certain kind of person yourself in their presence. And when that feeling is frustrated or fades, the love is over...that person seems no longer your brother (phileo) or your beloved (eros) because they have violated your feeling obtained in loving them.
Such love cannot be commanded, because it depends on feeling. But agape can be commanded, even in regard to enemies: "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.." (Mt. 5:43). If "love your enemy" waits upon the feelings, it will wait a long time. But one can always be actively devoted to the good of one who hates you.
The problem is, what's your incentive for doing so? The incentive is love for God. That's why that's primary. If you don't love God, you cannot love your enemy. Moreover, your other "loves" become of only the lesser types that depend on circumstances or on the character of the object. And these cannot be commanded.
Metropolitan Anthony," I began, "five years ago when I visited you I attended services which you yourself conducted and I remarked to you how struck I was by the absence of emotion in your voice. Today, in the same way where it was not you but the choir, I was struck by the same thing, the almost complete lack of emotion in the voices of the singers."
Yes he said, "this is quite true, it has taken years for that, but they are finally beginning to understand...."
"What do you mean?" I asked. I knew what he meant but I wanted to hear him speak about this - this most unexpected aspect of the Christianity I never knew, and perhaps very few modern people ever knew. I put the question further: "The average person hearing this service - and of course the average Westerner having to stand up for several hours it took - might not be able to distinguish it from the mechanical routine that has become so predominant in the performance of the Christian liturgy in the West. He might come wanting to be lifted, inspired,moved to joy or sadness - and this the churches in the West are trying to produce because many leaders of the Church are turning away from the mechanical, the routine.."
He gently waved aside what I was saying and I stopped in mid sentence. "There was a pause, then he said: "No. Emotion must be destroyed."
He stopped, reflected, and started again, speaking in his husky Russian accent: "We have to get rid of emotions....in order to reach.....feeling."
Again he paused, looking at me, weighing the effect his words were having. I said nothing. but inside I was alive with expectancy. I waited.
Very tentatively, I nodded my head.
He continued: "You ask about the liturgy in the West and in the East. it is precisely the same issue. the sermons, the Holy Days - you don't why one comes after the other. or why this one now and the other one later. Even if you read everything about it you still wouldn't know, believe me.
"And yet . . . there is a profound logic in them, in the sequence of the Holy Days. And this sequence leads people somewhere - without their knowing it intellectually. Actually, it is impossible for anyone to understand the sequence of rituals and Holy Days intellectually. it is not meant for that. It is meant for something else, something higher.
For this you have to be in a state of prayer, otherwise it passes you by-"
"What is prayer?" I asked.
He did not seem to mind my interrupting with this question. Quite the contrary. "In a state of prayer one is vulnerable." He emphasized the last word and then waited until he was sure I had not taken it in an ordinary way.
"In prayer one is vulnerable, not enthusiastic. and then these rituals have such force. they hit you like a locomotive. You must be not enthusiastic, nor rejecting - but only open. This is the whole idea of asceticism: to become open.".............