surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pm
Age wrote:
I did NOT know that a human being could nor would get so uptight and upset as it appears here now about some misspelling of some
word which is in essence just a completely made up and false name to hide the actual name or identity that that one usually goes by
Two things - I am not uptight or upset at all
I NEVER said you were.
This is CLEARLY EVIDENCED in MY writings here.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pmbut am simply pointing out your repeated errors so that you do not repeat them again
What would have HELP me tremendously if 'you' actually quoted were I spelled that name WRONG, so then I would KNOW EXACTLY how to NOT repeat MY ERROR.
Telling me, or any one "else", "You are wrong", or telling/pointing out errors by just saying, "I am simply pointing out your repeated errors", BUT never actually highlighting the ACTUAL ERROR, and suggesting ways to correct, I found is NOT the best way to obtain the change WANTED in "others".
Actually HIGHLIGHTING and SHOWING the ERROR, AND THEN explaining WHY it is WRONG, is what I found is helpful and what I continually ASK FOR.
Even better, which I only just now discovered, IS ALSO suggesting to me (them?) HOW to do things BETTER, as well, AFTER the MISTAKE is SHOWN, and the reason WHY it is a WRONG MISTAKE is PROVIDED.
And whether the name is false and completely made up does not change the fact that it was spelled incorrectly at least four times[/quote]
I KNOW and KNEW that that NEVER changed the FACT that I spelled one word WRONG, at least four times.
I was just pointing out that what appeared to me, which was just a serious disapproval of some thing, was in fact done over some thing that was NOT even an actual REAL Thing anyway.
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pmI have corrected them myself so there is no need for any superfluous questions from you now
But if 'you' change things, and therefore there is NO actual PROOF, then HOW do we KNOW that I actually spelled a word WRONG, AT LEAST FOUR TIMES, and WHERE those FOUR TIMES WERE EXACTLY?
How am I going to Truly BETTER thy Self if my OWN WRONGNESS is HIDDEN from Me?
If I do NOT correct my OWN ERRORS and WRONG DOING, then I am NOT really LEARNING how to become BETTER.
If "others" do EVERY thing for me, then I will NOT learn HOW to become BETTER.
By the way my questions are NOT "superfluous" to me. If they were, then I would NOT have asked them, correct?
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pmAnd any you do ask will be ignored because I will not have the mental energy to answer them
Okay, so I will NOT ask 'you' if 'you' would prefer I give 'you' 1,000 dollars or 1,000,000 dollars today because this would just be a "superfluous" question to you, and one that was not needed to be asked, am I right?
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pmThey will be off topic and clogging up the thread so it has to stop you know so no more of them please
WHY do 'you' continually accuse me of going "off topic", while appearing as though, to 'you', you do NOT do this?
IF we cared to LOOK BACK over our conversations now, are 'you' at all OPEN to the FACT that who has gone "off topic" might NOT be the one who 'you' have made out it might be?
surreptitious57 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 03, 2019 1:13 pmOthers post off topic too you once said but theirs are usually more interesting and so I dont mind them
Well take it back "on topic" if you REALLY are NOT finding talking like this interesting.
To me, 'you' AND 'me' would be pretty close to agreeing the same way in this topic. So, just telling me what I ALREADY KNEW was NOT very interesting at all.
'you' answering my questions, which were OBVIOUSLY posed for some one "else", with answers, which I ALREADY KNEW, then I WILL question 'you' WHY you do this. If 'you' do NOT like the question, then leave it. But then going on and worrying about having some Truly insignificant named spelled wrong is NOT what I would call STAYING ON TOPIC, myself. Continually informing us that 'you' constantly do NOT have the "mental energy" is ALSO NOT what I call STAYING ON TOPIC, either.