Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pm
I assume that you needed to apply a new or different or alternative way of seeing, and thus of perceiving and being, because you felt constrained by the limitations imposed in your early formation as a Christian -- that is if I have interpreted what you have written accurately.
Does a person
need to replace Christianity with something specific... or can it be that Christianity is just let go?
Feeling a 'need to', or just actually, replacing ANY BELIEF with ANY OTHER BELIEF is just plain old INSANITY, to the highest degree.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Is it not sensible for a person to say 'I will take the value I see from each path and continue exploring, as there is no single path I want to follow'?
Do you NOT want to follow the path, which is the most Honest and Truthful, or, in other words, literally, the most straightforward, easiest, and simplest path in Life?
Or, do you want to follow paths that make things HARD and/or COMPLEX in Life for you?
Also, because you OBVIOUSLY do NOT want to follow ANY single path in Life, due to your current BELIEF, no matter how Right and Good it is, this does NOT mean that "others" do NOT want to follow the single most Honest and Truthful path in Life.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pm
Lacewing wrote:But what happens when they let go of needing to be 'right', and realize how much more there is than that?
This is something I have thought a great deal about because I am a product of *radical California*
So am I, and thankfully so... although I don't refer to it that way, and I don't live there anymore. I felt aligned with it from the time I arrived there. I imagine there are other places in the world that tend to explore beyond conventions. I appreciate that -- it seems more reasonable and beneficial to me than not doing so. I understand why people find value in conventions
What value is there, supposedly, in conventions that are NOT actually Truthful and Right?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
-- but there's a difference (for me) between using conventions that make life efficient, and handing one's life and potential over to conventions.
Is the BELIEF that,
There is NO one single, absolute Truth, a convention?
Or, would Honestly ADMITTING that it, OBVIOUSLY, IS be too much of a CONTRADICTION for you to do?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pmthis general influence to come up with new paradigms, new and radical ways of being
Is that bad? Do you think that what I've said and suggested is outrageous and disruptive?
Well it CERTAINLY IS NOT Honest and Truthful, and so is just MORE, and ANOTHER one, of the outrageous and disruptive things 'you', adult human beings, say and BELIEVE in.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
It seems sensible and useful to me.
OF COURSE it does. Otherwise you would NOT BELIEVE in it and PREACH it, as often as you do here.
And, by the way, how useful has it ACTUALLY BEEN in your life?
If ANY, then will you provide us with some examples?
If no, then WHY NOT?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Is it possible to see how Christianity is outrageous and disruptive?
Is it possible for you to see how your BELIEF is outrageous and disruptive?
Also, is it possible to see the things that are NOT outrageous NOR disruptive in "christianity"? Or, are these things the ONLY things you can see in "christianity"?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Do convention and tradition get a 'free pass' to escape the same level of scrutiny that is applied to what is seen as radical thought?
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pmI think we have to understand the emergence of the post-Christian culture. Obviously, given the political and social problems that are starkly visible in America today this 'seeing and understanding' become imperative.
It appears to me that Christianity developed to serve the people at that time (of its development),
What was 'it' that the people, 'at that time', needed a thing to develop to 'serve those people'? Or, in other words, what is in "christianity" that could 'serve' the people, 'of those times'?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
but it has morphed into something much different to serve and be manipulated by people of our time.
What has "christianity" supposedly 'morphed' into, which "others" supposedly do NOT see, yet you do see?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
The 'good' it inspires is not exclusive to nor dependent on Christianity.
What does the word 'it' here refer to, exactly?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Inspiration and 'good' comes through humans in countless ways.
OBVIOUSLY, but some people judge "others" as being wrong or no good, just because they might label "themselves" with words and names like, "I am a christian".
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
It seems to me that Christianity is tangled up in archaic beliefs that actually stunt our development and limit our awareness.
It is VERY CLEAR that ANY one who has or holds ANY BELIEF is ACTUALLY stunted in development and is, literally, limited in Awareness. As can be CLEARLY SEEN and PROVED True by the writings and views, 'at those times', of the people in this forum,
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
We cling to it in fear, rather than stepping aside from it to recognize the SAME good all throughout us.
And 'you', "lacewing", here, are a PRIME EXAMPLE of this EXACT behavior.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
A recognition of love and good and reverence is what I share with the Christian view -- I just don't assign it to the framework they do.
So, end of story, and just move on, correct?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
In many ways, it appears that I (and countless others) experience more acceptance and love and gratitude than some who would call themselves true Christians.
Again, this is VERY, VERY OBVIOUS.
And, what is ALSO VERY, VERY OBVIOUS here is 'you', "lacewing", just like a lot of so-called "christians", do NOT accept and love "others" if they do NOT follow and adhere to YOUR BELIEFS.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
So what are those Christians actually doing, and who are they actually serving? I think it's reasonable to ask.
What they are doing is what ALL of 'you', adult human beings, did, 'in those days', when this was being written. They are CONTRADICTING their OWN words and BELIEFS.
And, who ALL of 'you' were serving in those days, were your OWN greedy AND selfish "selves".
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pm
When one gives up understanding what is *right* one give up belief in what is right and also good.
Well, that's not quite what I said, nor my intent of course! I'm speaking about a person's focus/agenda on being 'right' above all else -- such that they are inclined to manipulate and deny that which does not align with them.
A great example of this is if, and when, one has an agenda, and focuses their attention on being "right" about that agenda, like, for example the agenda;
THERE is NO One Truth"
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 2:51 pmOne can be said to enter into a zone of uncertainty. If one cannot decide, one cannot build because one does not have a solid ground on which to build, nor the definite tools needed to build.
What are we building? What is our purpose? Does certainty have as much capability of limiting us as uncertainty?
But building on top of what one just says they are "certain of", but which is NOT YET PROVED to ACTUALLY be True, Right, or Correct, can, and WILL, cause and create a TUMBLE, CRASH, and FALL, "of biblical dimensions", as some might say.
And when this happens to ALL of 'you', adult human beings, the rest of us are WAITING FOR.
By the way, in those days, when this was being written, what 'you' were building was 'a mess'. What was your purpose IS the SAME as it ALWAYS IS. And, it could well be argued that being 'uncertain' is FAR WISER, and NOT AT ALL 'limiting', like 'certainty' WITHOUT PROOF ACTUALLY IS.
For example, when one of 'you' is CERTAIN, is it because you have thee ACTUAL and thus forever more IRREFUTABLE Truth, or just because you BELIEVE it is true? Gain that KNOWLEDGE and WISDOM, and then you will KNOW where AND when to start 'building' from.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
I am not suggesting that we somehow suddenly and completely throw out all convention.
WHY NOT?
I would and do suggest that you ALL start, suddenly AND completely, throwing out ALL convention that can NOT be PROVED to be IRREFUTABLY True. And then, START AGAIN.
But each to their own.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
I am suggesting that we recognize convention for what it is...
What IS 'convention'?
Will 'you' help us to 'recognize' what 'convention' ACTUALLY IS, EXACTLY, also?
If yes, then GREAT.
But if no, then could this be because you are NOT YET CERTAIN of what 'convention', itself, ACTUALLY IS, EXACTLY? Or, do you just NOT want to help us recognize what you ALREADY apparently KNOW? Or, is there some thing else at play here?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
and be aware of the limitations that it may impose,
Would this be like being AWARE of the 'limitations' imposed on the convention that, "There is NO One Truth", actually has on those with that BELIEF?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
as well as considering the potential that exists beyond it.
Have the people with that BELIEF, actually, 'considered' the potential beyond that BELIEF and convention?
If yes, then what have they ACTUALLY considered could be beyond that BELIEF and convention?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
There can be value in doing that.
Yes there COULD BE.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Some people may not want to do that.
As has been PROVED True MANY, MANY times throughout just this forum.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Fri Nov 26, 2021 6:17 pm
Many people, like myself, seek a balance between having enough structure to build lives, but not worshipping those structures -- so that we can see beyond them.
And, LOL here we have a PRIME EXAMPLE of just how FOOLED these people, 'in those days', REALLY were, and ALL by their OWN making and doing. That is; they did NOT have to have, hold onto, and NOR maintain those BELIEFS which, as can be CLEARLY SEEN here, they continually DID, 'in those times'.