What causes porn addiction???

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Typist » Tue Nov 16, 2010 12:13 am

Duszek. I think you're on the right track in regards to control. However, you seem think this control issue is specific to men. Let's review a female perspective, using your own words.
duszek wrote:A normal man should be repulsed by porn. Men are not pigs, are they ? So it is a mentally sick man who indulges in obscene things.
This sentiment is called manipulation with guilt and shame. It's a control technique.

Men and women are different.

Male mammals are programmed to have sex with as many females as possible. That's the genetic job we were assigned by nature.

Women are programmed to raise the babies that result. To do their job, women have always had to control men, as we have historically been the key to the needed resources.

However, women have always been physically weaker than men, and thus couldn't control men through force. Thus, women became smarter than men, and controlled men with psychology.

That's what the guilt trip you're selling is all about. Why fight a man directly, when you can convince him to fight himself? Much safer, and more effective too! Smart! Women are smart.

These patterns have been going since the beginning of men and women, so the whole routine is on auto pilot now. I really don't think most women sit around plotting ways to manipulate men, it's just their nature developed over millions of years, just as it is a man's nature to desire sex with lots of women.

In other words Duszek, porn is your fault, women's fault. :lol: I'm only half kidding.

Women are very confused about they want from men. They want us to be strong men, but then they don't too. They want to control us, but then are disappointed when we submit.

If you want to end porn, allow men to be men. Allow us to have sex with any willing woman, and don't take it so frigging seriously.

Until then, check this out! :lol: :lol:

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by chaz wyman » Tue Nov 16, 2010 12:46 am

Phew!! Outstanding!

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Typist » Tue Nov 16, 2010 12:48 am

For her sake, I hope the effect was created in Photoshop!

Oink, oink! :lol:

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Arising_uk » Tue Nov 16, 2010 12:49 am

Anyone noticed how much 'porn' is becoming the padeophiles dream? I.e the 'slutty' child, e.g. the above image. And worse that our women are surgically enhancing themselves to appeal to such things.

Still, I'm not above a picture of a good bod to wank over.

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by chaz wyman » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:17 am

THis picture gave me a cold chill - is this really your taste??

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Arising_uk » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:28 am

:lol:

Not good-looking enough?

Tits too small?

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by fiveredapples » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:31 am

She's not exactly a looker, but she will definitely do. Personally, that's a little more up top than I like, but I'm willing to accept her imperfections.

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Typist » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:31 am

I posted that picture mostly in an attempt to freak out Duszek. I'm not that fond of manipulation by guilt techniques, and so was indulging in a little friendly revenge. :lol:

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Arising_uk » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:38 am

Why do males always say this?
fiveredapples wrote:She's not exactly a looker, but she will definitely do. Personally, that's a little more up top than I like, but I'm willing to accept her imperfections.
:lol: Better take your wallet then as I doubt she'll be so forgiving of yours.

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by chaz wyman » Tue Nov 16, 2010 1:44 am

Arising_uk wrote::lol:

Not good-looking enough?

Tits too small?
Tits to small and that clitoris is way tooooo big for may taste.. :)

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Arising_uk » Tue Nov 16, 2010 2:13 am

I thought it an outside vagina? :)

So barring normal hetro chill response I think an added chill could be that my image is from a dating site and its not in a 'porn' pose as such. Whereas the asianbabe is in an industry standard.

I'd be interested in what the women would say? Apart from the dick hanging out(or maybe because of it?), would this be an erotic image? Or do the men have to be artificial in 'porn' like the women?

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by chaz wyman » Tue Nov 16, 2010 3:06 pm

Arising_uk wrote:I thought it an outside vagina? :)

Er no. If you can't stick your cock in it then it ain't no vagina.

Actually the penis is considered to be the analogue of the clitoris. Some women have mega clitorises, whilst some men have micro-penises, it is possible for the former to be bigger than the larger.
I'd link an image but I think the moderator might object.
You can do you own image search if you want to.
http://4.images.thumbhost1.com/tps/thum ... 144101.jpg

It is not widely know but all foetuses begin 'life' in the female form until the Y-chromesome where present kicks into action and the proto-female organs transform into male ones.



So barring normal hetro chill response I think an added chill could be that my image is from a dating site and its not in a 'porn' pose as such. Whereas the asianbabe is in an industry standard.

I'd be interested in what the women would say? Apart from the dick hanging out(or maybe because of it?), would this be an erotic image? Or do the men have to be artificial in 'porn' like the women?

In my experience women need something else other than an image to get aroused, whilst most men find images enough to initiate the appropriate bodily response, where welcome.


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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Typist » Tue Nov 16, 2010 5:29 pm

I'm just a wonderin.....

Why do many women seem to like bad boy men?

You know what I mean. Women say they want us to be civilized and sane, reliable and faithful, with good manners and morals, clean shirt and socks, and so on...

And then they fall head over heels for the guy who is doing every other girl in town, and providing his buddies at the bar with all the details.

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What's that all about?

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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by chaz wyman » Tue Nov 16, 2010 5:52 pm

Typist wrote:I'm just a wonderin.....

Why do many women seem to like bad boy men?

You know what I mean. Women say they want us to be civilized and sane, reliable and faithful, with good manners and morals, clean shirt and socks, and so on...

And then they fall head over heels for the guy who is doing every other girl in town, and providing his buddies at the bar with all the details.

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What's that all about?

You ought to know - he's your idol!


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Re: What causes porn addiction???

Post by Typist » Tue Nov 16, 2010 7:08 pm

Thanks Chaz, as usual you offer an insightful indepth analysis which reveals the subtle implications of points made by other posters.

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