godelian wrote: ↑Wed Jul 06, 2022 5:24 am
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Wed Jul 06, 2022 4:12 am
godelian wrote: ↑Wed Jul 06, 2022 3:59 am
You see, modern women somehow believed that they could incessantly criticize men.
Yeah, yeah, yeah...not wrong, but why don't you just ignore them?
It is necessary to train yourself in order to become battle-hardened.
I don't see "battle hardenedness" here. There's no "battle" except with somebody who's a genuine threat. These people of whom you speak -- they are not threat to me. Why are they a threat to you?
There are also modern women in SE Asia. I can pick them out of the crowd on sight. They do not even need to open their mouth. I can see it from subtle details, from facial expressions, from body language. It is so obvious to the discerning eye. You learn to do that by studying the subject. In SE Asia, I do not want dealings with modern women any more than in the West.
Okay, there are women you don't like, in this world. That's fine: you don't have to like them.
But you also don't have to fear and hate them, unless, maybe, you are also drawn to them and are afraid they're going to fool you, pull you in, and abuse you...
Then, maybe, an attitude of constant vigilance, fear and loathing would be warranted, because you'd be trying to keep yourself from being tempted to give in to them...However, you claim you don't admire them, so I can't figure that.
In any case, I don't have those anxieties. If you've got your own relationships in order, why become fascinated with the wickedness of the foolish and corrupt? And, as you say, you find those women pretty easy to detect: and it's true, they have a look, a style, an attitude, and even an age range that marks them as TikTok fodder and exemplars of bad life-decision making.
But there are still good people in this world. Be with them.
So what are you anxious about? I'm not seeing the reasoning there.
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Wed Jul 06, 2022 4:12 am
The problem is if you start believing that what you see there is average, normal or universal. It's not. You're not looking at a normal demographic there. You're looking at cherry-picked extreme cases.
Of course, but it is an excellent training ground.
For what?
I can see little value in looking constantly at the worst examples of the fairer sex behaving like cats. It's not the sort of preoccupation that's going to make you a good person.
Someone needs to write a book, titled "How to judiciously ridicule modern women"
Why don't you just ignore them? Why are you spending time so preoccupied with the misdeeds of people for whom you admit you have total contempt? Why would you want your life to be full of thoughts about them, or about hating anyone? How is that going to make you a happy and balanced person.