henry quirk wrote: ↑Wed Aug 04, 2021 2:07 pm*Well, that's the thing with the particular UU congregation I associated with, B: they didn't just talk about their neuroses, they indulged 'em. They fed their neuroses like pet cats then complained the pussy was too fat.Belinda wrote: ↑Wed Aug 04, 2021 9:21 amIt may be coincidence, but every Catholic person I have known, perhaps about ten individuals, has been kind, open- minded, and easy to be friends with.henry quirk wrote: ↑Mon Aug 02, 2021 4:44 pm UU churches attract people who seek truth and goodness without being willing to accept other people's ideas until they have had a long think about them.
Admittedly my experience with 'em is limited, but I found 'em short-sighted, grasping, and needy.
By contrast conventionally Xian churches tend to attract people who are either unaware they can think for themselves or are unwilling to do so.
Most of the pentecostals I've met are exactly like that. Not so much with, for example, the catholics. Nondenominationals in particular are a defiant bunch, clannish mebbe, but feisty...not followers-types.
The Unitarian church I attended had a mixture of people quite a few of whom had problems it is true. I guess that everyone has suffered some more so than others obviously. *Perhaps , Henry, you did not expect people to talk openly about their neuroses? I appreciate that you search and don't dismiss your own experiences.
You can insult one of my friends, but do you expect me to be an advocate for your fat pussy ?