Obvious Leo wrote:...offensive and stupid people are almost always unwilling to be taught.
True! I've often said that if people were capable of seeing certain issues with their behavior, they wouldn't be acting that way in the first place. And in this case, more than enough has already been said and ignored. Which is why taking "some sort of action" seemed like the surest path to resolution, rather than expecting any understanding/agreement to be met. I thought it was interesting for me to be honest and put it out there, but I really didn't expect anything to come of it. I half expected a few people to say they wanted ME banned.
Obvious Leo wrote:...insults and name calling can sometimes go over the top but this is only to be expected from time to time in the cut and thrust which necessarily accompanies the frank exchange of ideas.
I am guilty of this at times. I think there's something really invigorating and inspiring about exploring and expressing one's full range of being. For many years I was focused on just being nice, no matter what! Now I'm more than just nice. Sometimes I want to see if there's a way to get people to see themselves and/or other perspectives... and some shocking language can help. I learn things from the process (even if no one else does), and I enjoy some good laughs doing it (which I hope others do too).
Obvious Leo wrote:Lacewing wrote:Are we not allowing the world to go completely to the crazies, to do with as they please... despite the impact to others?
You need to get out more. It's already happening, even as we speak.
Yes, yes. Sometimes we actually think we might be able to improve on things. Ah, well. Hopefully we're enjoying the process and not counting on a destination.