I have a feeling those were in fact serious questions, if also entertaining for him, but if we're going to get fussy, I said one reason to ask the questions we asked. Not one reason he asked them. His motivation isn't in my justification for them.Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Thu Mar 21, 2024 3:03 pmThat is not quite right. In all fairness, Harbal asks questions for reasons of seeking entertainment, or passing the time, or for the sake of argument, or perhaps because he is bored and seeking stimulation.Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Thu Mar 21, 2024 1:47 pmOne reason to ask the questions I asked and Harbal asked is to see what is actually going on. I have forgotten whether you or Wizard or both asserted that it had to do with sex being for procreation.
I don't know who is willing to die for their values. Do Wizard and you do more than complain in online forums? I have no idea. Perhaps you go and protest at Pride parades. Perhaps you don't. I have no indication either of you are even engaged in any kind of activism, let alone dangerous activism, for example.There is another possibility for how those who participate in a forum like this might employ these discussions: as a way to get clear about their own values, about the philosophical hills that they are willing to die on; but really about who and what in the present day they will support and defend and encourage, and who they will not. These are topical, current-event type conversations but the ideal is that they be handled in a becoming, philosophical way.
So, far you're focused mainly on Harbal.Can you really say that *Harbal wants to see what is going on?* (in our culture, outside and beyond his village, outside and beyond his local community, outside and beyond his nation? etc.) I do not think that you can. And that is why I have taken, and will continue to take the tack I do in relation to him: because what I say is true. He does not actually care.
I don't think the phrase 'the historical proposition that sex if for procreation' makes sense. You can make the proposition that in history (or, really, some parts of history in certain cultures) sex was for procreation.We must realize that until very very recently sexual activity would likely have the result of pregnancy. Up till very recently no one could engage in intercourse without the realization that a pregnancy, and a child, would result. I am sure that you are aware that the contraceptive pill changed everything. But we do have to start from the historical proposition that sex is for procreation. Although now sexuality has been liberated from the obligations of pregnancy, birth and child-rearing.
Under the monotheisms that was often what it was supposed to be about, only, but in pagan cultures, no. And then even under the domination of monotheistic cultures there were people who did not accept being that way, subcultures, not just individuals. Then there's the Kama Sutra. Then there's the acceptance of homo-and bi-sexual activities in many cultures and subcultures: iow where pregnancy was not a possibility and this is the context we are bringing up 'the purpose of sex'. And when we speak of cultures that did not view sex as necessarily about procreation we have civilizations included, like the Greek and Roman ones.
And yes, contraception changed things. Our technologies changed all sorts of things and we do things in ways we did not and for different purposes than before.
Sure, I am also, in a wide range of areas.My view, or my position, is not (I suspect) quite what you think it is. My general position, my interest if you will, is in seeking out and trying to see how it is that our present has come to be and taken its shape. I am one of those, like many today, who is concerned and critical of what is going on generally in my own culture.
I think the monotheisms brought in certain kinds of antilife decay, with their huge focus on guilt and shame, tendencies to stifle emotional expression, their distaste for bodies, there ingeniously horrible threats about what happens when you don't follow the rules. I see the Enlightenment as also causing social decay. I dont' think this is all they did, but I see important decay in both these changes in tradition. Corporatism also. For some odd reason so much that gets blamed on the Left in terms of decadence is actually byproducts of corporate behavior.In the simplest of terms I would describe that as social decay.
No, you don't have to spell it out for me.Do I have to spell all this out to you? Surely you are aware enough of topical issues to understand what is being debated and argued today among those different, often opposed factions. You know: the Culture Wars
If this is the foundational value here, they it seems like our questions will get answers where there are other family patterns that are tolerated and perhaps should be suppressed.
Sure.I would say that as it pertains to the Culture Wars in the US today (my primary interest) that sexuality is one among a wide set of topics that is under examination. And since my interest is in *seeing* these social and ideological struggles in the fullest light, I will say that the sexuality question is one part of a larger issue and dynamic.
A TV show about an older couple who chose to never have children should be suppressed, for example, it would seem.
It's a thread about sex and the religious-left. I responded, there, to your points, but wanted to see if they held and how they held.I do not think you are focusing on the right thing. The *right thing* in my view is a wider and more general ethics.
Yes, and who benefits from that war?What I will say is that in our own time, and in our own nations, there are civil conflicts that are developing. In the US for example the term *civil war* has come up. Meaning I guess irreconcilable differences about what sort of polity differing groups want to live in.
This comment would make sense if I said the Right was bad because they will turn to violence and shunning while the Left doesn't do this. But if you read again what I wrote, I was responding toThe Radical Left, for example, has shown itself capable of burning cities if it believes it is not getting its demands met. What I mean is only that *violence* and *shunning* are part of political struggle.
Again, it is as if for you there is tradition (one tradition) and then the Left came and upended tradition. That keeps seeming like your idea of history. Implicit in this and perhaps explicit is that there is something bad about changing traditions. But if I look at what you both consider to be traditions, I see traditions that upended other traditions and the conservatives of the day would have has the same kind of abstract criticism of it. So, I see all sorts of problems with your sense of what is 'the' tradition and your sense that changing norms is per se problematic, when in fact you both are in strong support of what were radical even Leftist changes in tradition. So, telling me the Left are naughty to is utterly irrelevant to the point I was making.My position is that once one has crossed an inner barrier -- from what I could call the established normative to the outrageous and alternative possibility, and here I am talking of sexual passion and obsession -- one is then captured by that desire which overrides *sound reasoning*.
Ibid.I do not advocate for this, I only try to point out that when it comes to crucial questions of value that people in a given culture or nation will go to battle on different planes, not excluding those that involve violence.
Wizard is blunt and I actually think this is a plus in conversations like this.
With you, I am unsure if you will ever directly respond or respond to what I wrote.
You have mentioned a number of times, recently and in the past, that people will get aroused or say the same thing in other ways. People get aroused by ANY political position.