Oh, I see what you mean now. No...I don't think you understand. My sister and I have lived with a daily dose of my mom's "Psychological interpretation" since birth. We were never allowed to explore anything else, my mom was one of those type who thought anything different was the occult. We were not even allowed to play with kids who played dungeons or dragons or have any other idea that she thought was "against God."duszek wrote:That way your mother could feel important too. She is interested in psychology and so she may get a chance to tell something interesting to her daughters. You had your turn as an expert in philosophy, she can have her turn as an expert in psychology.
It makes more sense to do such things when the situtation is still fresh, of course.
She attacked you a little bit and you defended yourself and argued successfully. A psychological interpretation is always interesting. All three of you could have given one and compared them. And this time your mother would have the best arguments at her disposal, probably.
We were her captive audience and she would lecture us on her interpretation of the "Psychology" of "evil people" that seemed to be everywhere in her eyes. If we said something in the lecture...then we would have to hear that "something is HORRIBLY wrong with you...and if you think that then you need a psychiatric overhaul" And she would say it with a kinda spooky sing song voice I can't describe...but one that sounded like she was in the presence of the devil...meaning us and our questions. She would also love to give us lectures in the mirror....meaning she would turn her back to us and look at herself in the mirror as she dramatically lectured us on the psychology of the evil.
So you see...the problem isn't that she thinks she is unimportant...the problem is that she thinks that anyone or anything that strays from psychology or God...is evil. You could not even mentioning reading something as silly as Harry Potter to her...she would go into a psychology interpretation of why it is evil. She commands the spotlight in a conversation no one else can get a word in...and if they do she always finds something "psychologically" wrong with them afterward....this is why it was so rare for her to actually hear what I said and say, "I see what you mean and why you like it."
Btw...I have never told her I liked philosophy before the other day. And look at the letter I got in response. And did you notice that she immediately silenced me by giving me the letter and then saying, "Now I don't wish to discuss this again." I have liked philosophy since I came to this forum...how many years has that been? I am no expert....but can you imagine...being around my mother all those years...and never once getting a chance to tell her about myself?