That is a sexist remark. It reveals you deep seated stereotyping.
I'm sorry, but the properties of most women are true stereotypes. It is a logical necessity. Without it there would be no "class of womanlike objects" lol.
I think insanity starts when someone tries to deny reality because of ideological reasons.
True stereotypes are called general properties, which are true in most cases.
It is not stereotyping, not "dogism", not prejudice to say that "dogs love bones".
Yes, to be a woman means that you are different from men. And you are like other women.
It is just so sad that some women think that they should deny their true nature and play a male role to get equal treatment.
They are not happy in the long run and they do not feel feminine in most cases.
Exactly. I can see a person that is so obsessed with gender that s/he only sees a problem.
There are many careers where is it a positive advantage to be female.
There is only one such a job: being a model.
In all other jobs men are better paid.
There is no contradiction. I am not saying that. I am saying that there is discrimination - and YOU are the one doing it.
So I am discriminating against myself? Because I'm talking about what I feel inside. I don't want anybody to accept my opinion and I don't care about how other women are thinking or behaving - I don't want to influence them.
But I can tell you: most women think like me, but they are not telling the truth publicly and not telling it to males or even to themselves.
Whose truth? Your truth is sexist.
If society is not sexist, then why should we need laws to protect women?
If society is sexist, what are the evolutionary and biological bases of it?
You are the victim or perpetrator of brainwashing delusions.
In either case you are ignoring historical, evolutionary and biological facts.
Last time a society did this, it fell apart - it was called the Soviet Union.
Please read the Animal Farm.
Females are biologically and mentally different from males.
Females, as a group must have general properties - so they have some general properties which are different from the general properties of males.
So there must be true stereotypes.
If someone denies this, he or she is insane and delusional.
It does not mean that males are superior - it is stupid to ask which is the superior, the apple or the orange?
But it does not mean that apples are oranges.
No, but you are happily (or not so) participating in your own oppression.
You don't understand my problem. I'm oppressed because I'm not treated like a woman.
If men were treated like women, I should have no problem living in a male body.
You are certainly experiencing confusion. ANd nothing you are doing right now is helping you live with what you have.
So, I am of the opinion that you are willingly entering the role of victim in which you can only see the world as a problem.
This is a choice.
You really can't understand what I'm talking about, can you? You are thinking like a man.
I suspect you haven't got the slightest clue what I'm feeling.
Many people do for many reasons. The only way you can avoid being weak is to first leave your old shoes at the door and find a new pathway.
You won't ever understand what I feel. This is like talking about colors to a blind person.
Can I say blind person or is it racist, sexists or "anti-blindpersonist" too?
Is it a false stereotype to say that blind people can't see?
I'm getting very confused now.
We should ban the truth because it so much better to live in sweet lies and delusions.
The truth is so rude, isn't it?
Let's say that there are no blind people anymore, only those who probably will be able to see in the future.
We are all the same!
Clarify?
This shows that you don't even understand how men and women are treated differently in society. And they love it!
I see the natural difference between myself and and a male.
There are so many other people in your position that have come to terms with their situation. You need to find them and talk it over to see what practical advice they can give you.
Like the nearly 30% of transsexuals who commits suicide if there is no help for them?
Who? How? You are not being clear on this.
As a "male" I don't like stress, I don't like aggressive and disruptive behavior, it feels not right.
But there are others. 2 minute ago I saw a gorgeous man dressed as a women out on the town.
DO you live in a red neck town or something?
Or something lol. I don't want to elaborate.
You've no need to be patronising. I'm not stupid as I think you know, but maybe you can get some value out of considering my analysis of what I am reading?
Sorry, I don't think you are stupid but you are repeating a very vulgar form of liberal ultra-feminism. Women are not like that.
No not at all. Getting yourself beat up about not being able to have a kid is really ridiculous in your position.
You need to deal with what you have , not with what you think you deserve.
What you don't seem to understand is that I cannot choose what I desire. It is not about logical thinking.
Do you think is it logical that I like to wear nail polish? Or I like pretty dresses? I just like those things. I want those things.
Get a life! I do not have a womb and neither do you. There are lots of things that I might otherwise have had, like a father that spent time with me, or a mother that cared, or a decent school to go to, or not to have to deal with a drunken step father etc...I grew up and learned to accept those problems because regrets are useless.
But one has to learn in life to play the hand you have, not the one you dream about
Did your brain want these feelings desperately and irrationally?
Yes, my brain wants a female body and a female social role.
Because I'm a transsexual, remember?
It is not about a sad childhood it is about a constant conflict between my desires, instincts and my social role and my body.
No, your strict gender definition will not allow you to, like I said.
What the fuck is a man anyway?
A man is somebody, who is considering himself a man and happy living as one.
Someone who is not like me.
I'm not bashing you at all. I did not ultimately loose anything. I simply got on with it and made the best of it.
I don't know where you are from. My Grandmother who lived through the Blitz and lost a baby in WW2, learned to 'make the best of it', "Don't worry - have a cuppa" Your problems are nothing compared to billions of poverty stricken people the world over.
I'm saying that it is not unbearable to be a transsexual, but it it is a constant burden and almost without any pause. It is a constant, low level disphoria.
That persecution complex rearing its ugly head.
No, it is not that.
I'm just brave enough to confess that sometimes I would enjoy a more submissive, more passive role.
You wrote about my pierced ears and the loss of male authority that "You want your cake and eat it.".
I know that it is hard to understand but actually - even if I feel shame and degradation - it makes me happier to experience this feeling.
It is not persecution complex, it just the desire of not to be treated like a man.
Maybe I'm desperate because I was never treated like a woman.
Well without seeing a picture of you I would not be able to judge.
Sorry, that wouldn't be appropriate, but it feels really nice that you kind of asked for my picture.