when did i do thatKayla wrote:why do you think that female genital mutilation is okchaz wyman wrote:From your point of view.female genital mutilation is stupid barbarian and primitive
I wouldn't allow any one to do it to my child.
which obviously disagrees with yoursFrom your point of view.forced marriage is stupid barbarian and primitive
Nope, Stupid
why do you think its acceptable to force a girl or a woman into marriage
you or at least other readers may notice by now that accepting cultural relativism entails accepting a very lousy deal for girls and women
Not from their point of view
having sex before marriage does nothing inherently harmfulHave you had sex before marriage?
Not necessarily.
this cannot be said for cutting off a girls clitoris with a rusty dirty knife
Stop being hysterical. Not so long ago the USA practiced circumcision on 90% of boys.
I wouldn't do it to my child
or forcing a girl to marry against her will
That is not often the consequence of arranged marriage. Most are more successful than Western marriages
why offer alternatives if what they are doing is just as good as anything else anyone else is doingAnd to offer alternatives, through dialogue and example.
the missionaries were only behaving based on their own cultures logic which you obviously do not understandSadly the history of cultural contact has robbed the world of much of its diversity by people like missionaries passing judgement on other cultures.
Duh!!!! Give the girl a banana!!!
what is your problem with missionaries
See above!
Arrogantly imposing their cultural norms on other people
if you want to argue that the european colonizers methods were counter productive and that they were a bunch of hypocrites that generally did more harm than good that seems like a very reasonable argument but that is not the argument you are making
Yes I would argue that. And they remind me of you, whose country has invaded otehrs to impose their capitalist comsumerist sexist culture
Calling a woman how chooses to wear a burkha "stupid and primitive", or "barbarian" will not result in them wishing to change their minds or their culture.
Why dont you read your own words?
a man forcing a woman to wear a burka is stupid and primitive
Most women wear then voluntarily. No country makes it law. Peer pressure is subtle.
if a woman wants to wear a burka or a microskirt with buttfloss underwear or whatever that should be her right
you should visit the bible belt sometimes
No thanks. Not if it produces hysterical teenagers like you who want to impose their cultural values on other people.
One sort of oppression usually produces another. You have this arrogance because you live with another type o arrogance all around you. From my perspective, your whole country is pretty sick.
But just because I believe that the USA is a backwards looking, oppressive, arrogant and aggressive culture does not give me the right to try to impose my more liberal minded values on you. You have to change yourself from within with what examples you can find.
But you just sound like a fundamentalist, but in inverse.
when it comes to men forcing girls and women to live in a certain way we are ahead of the taliban but by not as much as many people think
we do not need men self righteously going on about how preventing access to sex education and birth control is only wrong from our perspective and how we should focus on the logic of the culture rather than judging it
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