Who picks who in a relationship?

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Re: Who picks who in a relationship?

Post by Harbal » Wed Apr 12, 2017 8:26 pm

vegetariantaxidermy wrote: And some people get bored with getting along all the time.
I wouldn't know about that.
They need a bit of drama in their love lives.
I would have liked considerably less in mine.

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Re: Who picks who in a relationship?

Post by vegetariantaxidermy » Wed Apr 12, 2017 8:45 pm

I didn't ask you if you 'know' about that. I mean, there are how? many billion people on the planet so there are going to be a certain number who enjoy drama in their love lives. It's not exactly freakish alien behaviour. I'm sure there are plenty who like sucking each others' big toe as well!
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Re: Who picks who in a relationship?

Post by duszek » Wed Apr 12, 2017 8:45 pm

Some people are allergic to drama, honestly.

Lack of drama does not mean boredom.

There is a huge spectrum between the two.

Drama and boredom are not even contraries, are they ?

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Re: Who picks who in a relationship?

Post by duszek » Wed Apr 19, 2017 3:09 pm

The pickers are also the dumpers.

They are used to playing the active part.

They take a risk when they try to pick (of being rejected and therefore humiliated) but when they dump the pickee later they get even (in a way).

The pickee can alleviate the pain by pretending that no picking has ever taken place at all.
"What are you talking about ?!"

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Re: Who picks who in a relationship?

Post by duszek » Sun Apr 23, 2017 11:37 am

In the book "Libres d´aimer" which is about cougars in literature there are lots of examples about how elderly women take advantage of young inexperienced men who are called toy boys or gigolos.

They don´t seem to mind being picked.

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