Immanuel Can wrote:TSBU wrote:Spanish.
Magnificent language. So expressive. I regret I have all too little of it right now.
Lo siento.
Not very different to any other romanic language: French, Italian, Portugués... It's said that Russian is very expresive too.
Transgender is not body dysphoria, or at least, that's not enough definition of the problem.
It is, it's just an extreme form and, as you say, often associated with other conditions that complicate it, such as Aspergers Syndrome or a history of abuse. The people who experience it are thoroughly worthy of sympathy.
I wouldn't put al the "dysphoria" problems in the same group, they are too different. But a I said, I haven't met any person who wanted to shange their sex. In any way, "often" is not always. I have a history of abuse and I like my penus.
Completely diferent problems. And in some cases, it's very understable to feel that way, if you borned witout legs... who wouldn't want to have them?
Actually some body-dysphoric people wouldn't want them. Consider the sufferers of BIID, for example: they actually amputate limbs, or maim themselves...but then, so do some of the "transgendered."
I know, but where is the difference? I haven't met any person who said that puting fake tits or limbs implies being mentally ill when it is a woman the one who wants it, and the big etc going through creams and all that wasted money. What I'm defending is their right to do what they want, even if I find them wrong with my eyes, as long as it is their problems. At least, if I'm going to phisically stop someoene from dong anything, I'm the one who is going to do it, and only after knowing the person, I don't think that puting a law will help anyone, that's all.
...being fat is for many people a crime...
It shouldn't be...but neither should it be "normalized." Fat kills. It creates heart attacks, joint problems, fertility issues, breathing problems, economic distress, social impairment, severe self-image problems, and sometimes death. It should be treated, not normalized.
What do you understand by normalized? Yep, it create many health problems... not economic distress, not social impairment, and not severe self-image problems: idiots are what cause that things. Many people can't stop being fat, it is in their genes, like being short or other things, and healthy problems doesn't explain a shit, people attack beccause of their sex behaviour.
People smoke, that's an adiction that will destroy you. As far as I know, changing sex is not worse for the body than smoking cigarettes.
I don't normalize smoking either. It kills too. I know several people who could not quit, and died of lung cancer. That's truly horrible. We should wish for every person who smokes that they would quit before they die horribly. We shouldn't encourage them to smoke.
I don't know what do you understand by normalize, you can only control yourself, and you are only one, you can't normalize anything. Yep, smoking is a piece of shit, and it's a good comparison with fat people, I don't find many people laughing at smokers. I don't encourage them, it's just an example of how "nor sane" are everybody, and how little you can controll.
Do you want to forbide smoking?
Do you want to empower lung cancer?
There is a third option between "with me or against me", I want to empower my own choices about my life if they don't harm other people.
No matter what you think, it depends on the case, and if you really want to help a person, then do it yourself, at least try to know the fucking person before interfering in their choices.
If someone is mentally ill, then what they do is either a reduced choice, in some cases, or no choice at all. In such cases, we "interfere" if we can, because the person in question is needing help.
I don't agree at all. Being wrong (or deeply wrong, in the core and personality) doesn't change the fact that you are making the choice. If you want to interfere, do it alone, not protected by the masses and the law, go an help a group of drug addicts or whatever you want, but know them before acting. If a person with cancer wants to die because of pain and is going to die in 5 days anyway, there are going to be many people claiming that the person should stay alive... I'd say "you want to interfere? ok, up your hands, let's see who interfere better".
That is why we don't execute the insane: even if they committed homicide, they could not always help it. And to the extent they could not help it, we may even incarcerate them for their own good and the good of society; but we also treat them, and we don't regard their behaviour as criminal. They had no ability to do otherwise at the time.
No. You are asuming that majority choices are correct or sane, but everybody is crazy. There is no good reason to do most of what is done.
Since you ask, I can tell you that the person I'm talking to about this I know very well. And I don't "interfere" with his choice: he is going ahead as he sees fit. I have no power and no intention to restrict him. But I fear for him, because when it's all over, he'll find no sympathy among the "liberal" set, if he continues to have struggles with his identity, self-image and self-destructiveness. The "liberals" will refuse him compassion, because he won't fit their narrative about how transgenderism solves such issues. They will isolate him and ignore him. Their attitude will be, "Why is he complaining? He makes it sound like transgendering doesn't help sufferers become "normal" and "happy." " They will prefer their narrative to his happiness...and life...and they will make him an outcast if he complains.
I must apologyze, I wasn't really reading the thread, and you seem to be reasonable. If you don't interfere but talking etc, then you have my best wishes with that person. But... I'm afraid some people are beyond repair.
So I sincerely fear for him. His "allies" will turn on him instantly if this does not work. And they will continue to deny he needs help. He will be all alone. But I will not turn on him. His friendship with me will not depend on my agreement with his choice, and I will continue to see him as a real person and a friend, and I will treat him as such.
It's going to be painfull for you I think
Good luck.
I wonder, would you? If a friend of yours were to convert to some conservative religious or political position with which you don't agree -- perhaps, say, opposing the normalizing of transgenderism, for example -- could you still treat him as a friend?
I don't have close friends. I have people who would fight for me, and I would fight for them, but I don't feel many more than what I feel for my cat, because in my eyes, everybody is "crazy". So, every time I'm with a person, I'm doing something like that.