Since this is an internet forum, I don't have any physical contact with Harbal and probably never will, and it's only words on a screen, nothing more.ken wrote: Would you still find it fun if harbal said, Pity, really, as by all accounts thedoc's pretty hot between the sheets. Implying that you are pretty hot with the guys in bed? If you find that perfectly okay and fun, then that is fine. But just because you might find it fun does not mean another person does.
As I have already suggested, I do not know how well harbal knows the other person. It may well have been perfectly acceptable and appropriate to both people, and if it is, then that is all that needed to be said.
But i might be completely wrong.
Why?
And that is the problem you don't know Harbal or me, so you have no basis for your comments.
Because you don't seem to be happy here, I was just suggesting that you find a forum that you can be happy with, but perhaps you're a Masochist.